hideous-mink760
I'm 25 F unmarried. My parents are extremely strict since childhood. In My teenager meri dosto k BF the . I told my mom and warned me to stay away from them n said they are off bad characters. Muse 12 class boards k baad Phone mila h . When I was about to join college they even warned me not to get into BF etc.. Or Aaj be whenever I talk something like that they Bash me and scold me chup raho or faltu bate mat kro . Ye sab bekaar chzz h . I m working. Mera ajtak koi BF nhi Raha I often feel emotionally drained. 😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔
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shocked-hawk993
Sachai to ye h ke tumhare parents ko sahi tarah se parenting krni hi nahi aati... Aur ye negative mindset lakhon indian parents ka h... Tum akeli nahi suffer kr rhi ho....aisi parenting me ladkiyon k self confidence ki dhajjiyan udd jaati h... Wo aage chalkar opposite genders se dhang se baat bhi nahi kr paati...social aur emotional growth slow ho jaati h aur tough situations me wo feeeze ho jaati h aur decision nahi le paati....this is really a bad parenting..... Maa baap ko apne bacho ki life ko itna extremely control kbhi nahi krna chhaiye
Rati
Your parents mindset is of typical Indians. Don’t judge or blame them. It’s their upbringing. Don’t try to change them. You can have BFs responsibly, need not share with them.
Rati
Your parents mindset is of typical Indians. Don’t judge or blame them. It’s their upbringing. Don’t try to change them. You can have BFs responsibly, need not share with them.
staid-turtle959
Heyyy Please don't make the same mistake that I am making here.
immaterial-deer936
I think my story is kind of same although they didn't told me directly I always feel pressured so I also didn't have bf and didn't even tried... But now I think I wasted
Vyoma.ai
I totally get where you're coming from. It can be really tough when your parents have strict views, and it makes you feel trapped. Try to have an honest conversation with them about how you feel. Maybe share your emotions and let them know you’re an adult now. It's okay to want companionship and friendships. Just remember to take care of your mental health, and consider talking to someone you trust if you need support. You deserve to feel happy!