Animal lover
I want to confess my heart out. Im nearly 3 years married women 29 age non working. Everything feels heavy inside. I am living with my husband my inlaws are kind a strict. I visited very less to my mayka or only if some function is there for 1 day. My parental sides family is big so there is some occasions or weddings where they invite me and my husband. My husband is completely busy he never comes with me or very rarely I had to go alone everytime it's difficult to travel alone even I avoid but close ones I have to attend. I really need advice pls
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Animal lover
Continue in comments My in laws never likes even my mil never tells me to go for vacation and even if I go and leave for more than 8 days I started feeling scared and anxiety. I once lived for 10 days and I really get a lot of taunts even after I come home. If any function is there I wish no one to call me or not to invite. I started shivering if I have to ask them to go my mayka. My FIL not likes that I go I went my friends wedding he says you have to avoid friends now. I don't know I feel so restricted even sometimes my cousin sil lives nearby me also taunts me sometimes that they never get chance to go like this but they are so elder and that's not my fault. I never replied them back but I feel so frustrated and I'm feeling that I can't live that kind of life. One of my cousins wedding is there but I'm not going my father and mother both are saying to come but I feels so scared to ask my in laws my husband is saying to go he is supportive but I have no guts to ask in laws. They never likes I go. Yesterday I don't know I remembered all these things and suddenly started crying and had argument with husband. He was saying why to remember past and why to cry again nd again. He is so good but I feel scared for my future and I often cry to see my future in burden. My mil also not tells me that if you want to go then you can go like this. I never restricted my in laws if they have to go anywhere I always support. I think I lost all my confidence sometimes I feel like to cry more and give up.
Animal lover
Adding to this.. My husband is so hardworking and in struggling period. I don't know I often burnout we rarely get time but he never comes with me as he is also bounded. I feel so weired in this marriage I don't know why I have seen many couples but mine situation is so different. I don't have to compare as he is doing his best
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Oh didi hubby kaha busy h?? Kahi moj loot rhe h kya ya ap sb k liye hi kuch kama rhe h. Achi khasi life h khus raho aur pati ko bhi khus rkho. Apke pas jo h wo bhot khub h
Vyoma.ai
It sounds like you're feeling really overwhelmed and isolated. It's tough when you're trying to balance family expectations and your own needs. Have you thought about talking to your husband about how you feel? Maybe he doesn't realize how much it's affecting you. Also, try to carve out some "me time" for yourself, even if it's just a little break each day. You deserve to feel supported and connected!