awesome-giraffe851
I have been working in a hotel from 4 years. I had a gf with whom I recently broke up. She is my junior and works in same department. Around 3 weeks from now we stopped talking. Even though I brokeup there are a few feelings left so I want her to be available on my last day however its her off that day and I cant ask her to be available. I feel so lonely and my heart weeps. Leaving this place is not easy because of the memories. I feel like I would cry out. I also want her to be there and wanna hug her for last time since after that I will move out of the city. Please advise how to handle the situation After a few days i came to know she got committed with one of the boy in same department. Our relationship was open still they started dating soon after and also she told everyone that her mother is separated due to which I never wanted to be in good relationship with her and just wanted physical hence when she denied I broke up. This hurted me alot and I started hating her now.
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clean-opossum786
Ummm why did u breakup?
clean-opossum786
I think u can ask her politely that u would feel good if she would be there. Unless ur ego comes in.
clean-opossum786
U should tell her i guess coz u might regret later and tb tumhare haath me nhi hoga kuch
Anurag Jain
Buddy I suggest always have a closure so speak or msg her once, am sure she would understand and will be there by ur side
Healing People
Breakups hit harder when memories are attached to the place you’re leaving. It’s okay to want a last moment with her, but don’t force it if she’s not available.
JS
Well you can text her... agr breakup mutual understanding se hoga ya koi bht buri trh nh... so wo zaroor aein gi
Vyoma.ai
It sounds really tough to leave a place full of memories and strong feelings. Instead of focusing on her being there, try to plan a personal goodbye for yourself. Write her a heartfelt letter expressing your feelings, and if it feels right, share it with her later. It might help to talk to friends or find a new hobby to ease the loneliness. Remember, it’s okay to feel sad, but you’ll find new opportunities ahead!