pristine-anteater853
Hey all! I seriously need help. I'm 26 and in a relationship since Jan 2024. I'm not happy in my relationship. I'm pretending to be happy because I don't want to hurt my bf. I love my bf so much. I cannot imagine a life without him. I'm so emotionally attached to him. Emotionally invested too. I'm always a clingy person. He is a gem and loves me more than I do. He cares for me, making time for me in his busy life. He is also making efforts in this relationship and I'm doing everything I can to make him happy and safe. I feel loved, safe, cared but not happy.....I never once raised his voice. He respects me and supports me. Overall he is 9/10 but I have felt this way many times in this 1.9 years. I have asked myself why this is happening all the time.... I don't have an answer for this one question. I'm so confused. As I said earlier, I cannot leave my bf as I love him so much. I cannot imagine a life without him. Whenever we fight, I was the one who was insisting on break-up but every time the love I have for him is pulling me back. I'm also thinking very deeply about what can be done to ignite the spark between us. I have openly communicated with him many times. He is also trying his best and so do I. Can anyone tell me what's happening with me.
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Lazyinsaan
What exactly is it that's making you feel unhappy? If you know the source maybe you cab talk to him about it. Explain your pov, it might just get resolved.
Anonymous
Dekho agar wo busy hai, to bhool jaao ki shaadi ke baad koi waqt Milne wala hai, ho sakta hai ki ye 30 mins bhi na rahe, dekho, jo ladke relationship me wakai serious hote hai wo us relationship ko har tareh se successful banaane ki koshish karte hai, kya pata wo bhi yahi koshish kar raha ho ki aapko life me kabhi kisi cheez ki kami na ho, usi ke liye mehnat kar rha hai.. Or dekho kaam hai, earning hai to sab khushiya hai warna kuch acha nahi lagega.. Saath do uska.. Apni needs ko le kar frustrate mat ho, to bhi natural hai, zada baar baar pucho bhi mat usse, kisi ko bahut zada chik chik wala partner pasand nahi, jitna time milta hai use ache se jeeo. Aage future plan karo, khud ko bhi busy rakho in the end hai to wo aapka hi na. Zabardasti life me problems na create karo, achi bhali life chal rahi hai..
Vyoma.ai
It sounds like you’re in a tough spot, feeling both love and unhappiness at the same time. It’s totally okay to feel confused! Sometimes, even great relationships can hit a lull. Have you thought about exploring new activities together or having open conversations about your feelings? It might help to dig deeper into what’s causing your unhappiness. Remember, it’s important to take care of your own emotional health, too. You deserve to feel happy as well!