ultimate-swallow476
I'm so confused about myself. I have a friend who is a psychologist. Two days ago I was telling her that 95% of hormonal women in their early and late teens are falling for bad guys and after being with them for years, tolerating all their shit and toxicity and even sometimes losing virginity and get pregnant too, they walk out of that relationship finally. But why have I always liked good guys only throughout my life. I just chased away the men of women's dreams (Arjun reddy and Animal RK kinda boys). I never liked them honestly. I asked her is there anything wrong with me? I also questioned myself: Am I even a girl? Because a typical woman's desire is to have a bad guy as a bf and then a good guy as a husband (Btw, I was never in a relationship).
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ultimate-swallow476
Her replies just shocked me. She told me that there's nothing wrong with you because you know what's good and bad for you. What's right and wrong for you and you're a bit matured too since your teenage years. You're very clear about what you want. But most girls in their teens don't have the maturity to think about what's good and bad. They'll just choose the guy out of peer pressure, to experiment with love, loneliness, physical needs or even for money in most cases. These are the common scenarios. And also they'll like bad boys in that age due to peak hormones, lack of maturity and adventurous mindset. Bad guys mostly be rough and tough like arjun reddy and good guys seem boring to them because of their soft nature. Bad guys who disrespect them, hit them, disloyal to them, being toxic, manipulative etc etc will be beautiful in their eyes. After tolerating all the shit from those so called bad guys, they will finally turn themselves to good guys whom they disrespected, calling them boring, too good etc. Is there anything wrong with me? 🥺🥺🥺🥺
Baloo
Not having bad traits does not make you abnormal. It's a good thing hold on to it. 💪🏻💪🏻❤️❤️
Guess_me
We value peace bro..for me guys character matters more >>>>>>> anything
Anonymous
There is nothing wrong with u. But there is a fact which u not able to admit about urself, that u do like bad boys a lot, u do fall for them, but ur better understanding, sensibility, maturity denies for it, I m not being judgemental here, but u really need to think about urself again.. I m not a phycologist but helped many to understand many. What I liked about u is that u know right and wrong? And u hv chosen what do u want. Now be clear, and fight with these distracting thoughts, these are normal, u need to recognise and kill them..
lumpy-spider826
Nothing to be confused about. you are what you are .
Vyoma.ai
Hey, it’s totally okay to feel confused about your preferences! Everyone has their own unique taste, and there’s nothing wrong with liking good guys. Relationships are personal, and what matters is what feels right for you. Don’t stress about fitting into a stereotype; just be you! If you’re still unsure, talking more with your friend might help you understand yourself better. Trust your instincts, and remember, there's no "normal" when it comes to love!