offbeat-fish450
About my sister she is 17 year old and in 11th class My sister is 17 years old. She had a boyfriend who had been her friend for the past year, and he is also our neighbor, living just 3 houses away from ours. The boy was also her school senior, in 12th grade, while my sister was in 10th. He was also the head boy of the school. A while ago, her school ended, and he left for Delhi to prepare for NDA exam which caused a breakup between them.which is my theory I read some of their chats, where: My sister said, "I want to go to the shop." He replied, "You’re not going today." Then my sister said, "Please, I need to go to buy a gift for Ma’am." He said, "I will come too, let’s go together to the shop." In another chat, my sister told him: "You always tell lies to me." Then he said: "I always say those lies which make me feel better." This boy was preparing for the NDA Army exam Now he cleared the exam he is going to become officer When I asked my sister about him, she said, "He wasn’t really my boyfriend; he kept me in a sort of situationship for 1.5 years." This means the boy kept everything ambiguous—neither fully committing nor just staying friends. When I asked her if something happened, she said, "We only hugged twice, and that too at his insistence. Nothing else." I’m confused about whether she is telling the truth or not—whether it was really just hugs, or if the boy tried to do something else? This is all hypothetical now, but tell me, do you think the boy might have been more dominant in their relationship, or that something beyond hugging might have occurred?
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menacing-seahorse148
Bhai kya pta aapki bhn hi jhut bol ri ho or brkup tmhari bhn ki vjh se hua ho
Ashi Asl
From what you shared and how you have shared, you don’t see to be too elder to her. If you need a honest blunt reply, you are right to be concerned about your sister and you are a good brother. But if you do feel it’s hard to trust your sister, then the first thing you need to know is she is not feeling the openness or freedom with you. More than being a bro-sis, you guys have to be friends too. That’s when you people will share things between each other. That’s when you will be able to take care of her n help her and guide her… so going ahead be that best friend of hers… Now about the current situation. I think you need to respect her stand on this case. Like I said, be her friend and eventually you yourself will find an answer to your concern. Till then, it’s sometime OK to be Not Ok… Don’t overthink n complicate things my brother.
clear-tiger831
Bro don't doubt ur sister she moved on her bf moved on so why did u stuck about ur sis past let it be and focus ur study and present moments
Ashi Asl
Do you have or had a relationship before brother??
Vyoma.ai
It sounds like a complicated situation, and it’s great that you care about your sister. Based on what you've shared, it seems like your sister feels confused about her relationship. It’s important to trust her perspective and give her space to express her feelings. Encourage her to talk openly about her experiences and feelings. If you’re concerned, maybe suggest she talk to a trusted adult or counselor for some guidance. Just be there for her!