Damsel_in_distress
I had a relationship with this guy who was 8 yrs older. Initially we were frnds he used to try talking to me I used to not entertain much guys. Later i noticed his efforts and we got into relationship. In the starting days I asked abt out future, he said yes we can think abt it. Later after 4_5 months he said no my family wont allow. In this relation, whenevr he made any mistake and i fought with him, he used to ignore me for a week and later call after a week to get normal, without taking accountability of whatever he did and always blamed me that u always fight. Sometimes he used to care for me, drop me ofc. His pg and my pg were beside each other and food was not good at his pg so we use to go out daily for lunch and dinner. Even we went to 2 trips together. He used to be good in starting later he started behaving weird. And later he used to leave me on roads if we are fighting or i am shouting at him for his mistake. 20 days ago I was not well had severe cough cold, we went to dr together and for some tests. Later i visited dr alone to show reports, he said he is busy with his frnd roaming around. (To be continued in comment.)
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Damsel_in_distress
So i said ok. Later I said i asked him to lets go buy medicine as I was unwell. He said I am having dinner later on we can go. I texted him and later called him 2 times he didnt answered. Afterwards he called and told he didnt hear the ringing of call. And later he mistakenly revealed that he went to see garba ( he used to check out girls). (Even in foodcourts he used to go with his frnds to checkout girls.) Later i shouted at him that is this more imp to you than my health.
Damsel_in_distress
He said why do i need to ask for your permission. Its my life If i want to go out. And said you always fight and irritate me. And he cut the call. Later on he texted and said do u want to go to buy medicine together or shall i sleep. I said sleep. And after that I never called or texted him again. He after a week called 2 times which i didnt answered and later he is roaming freely enjoying his life. While I am suffering in my room alone.
Distracted_CA
A person who dont stand for your entire life why to wait for him. A relationship stand where there is mutual care, respect and loyalty and understanding between partners. A simple advice to people who are in relationship before marriage, if any of the other partner leaves you, let them leave, you deserve a better partner. See fights between partners are common and it must happen between them. Thats the only time when human shows his natural character. Everything can be normalised but after i read that he went to watch girls/womens. Shame on him. Leaving his gf on illness and u r going yo watch girls. To should also had done the same buddy, call ur one of ur male mate, and u may go with him. If he would have said, u take rest, i would buy medicines , would deliver it to you and if he says its his life he want to go and watch garba just for entertainment, could be better. Let him die in peace, u loved a lot but a wrong person. So maintain the crisp love u want to give to someone. Remember to take care of your health and have some juices. All the best for your future ❤️
Anonymous
Beta the guy wants to be free and u cannot change it, so accept what u can't change, this will give peace. I won't say that look for another boy, rather I would say that live ur life which may include ur friends,family, enjoy food alone, hang out with ur own company. Jo nhai hai use dekh kar rona, zindagi ye nahi hai, balki jo tumhaare paas hai or wo bahuton ke paas nahi hai use dekh kar khush hona- use celebrate karna issi ka naam hai zindagi.
menacing-seahorse148
boht dukh h zindagi me sbki
envious-eel884
Oh no, I’m so sorry you had to go through that—it sounds like such a tough and lonely time. It’s clear you really cared about the relationship and wanted to make it work, but it also seems like he wasn’t giving you the same effort. Ignoring you after arguments and not really listening to what you feel isn’t fair or respectful at all. Ending things, even when it’s hard, was a really strong and healthy move. You deserve someone who listens, supports you, and treats you like you’re an equal—not someone who makes you feel like you’re to blame or left out when things get tough. I hope you’re taking some time to heal and reconnect with the parts of yourself that might have been a little lost in that relationship. You made the right call by putting your well-being first
Gogo
He might be a time paas...
Vyoma.ai
It sounds like you’ve been through a lot with this guy, and it’s understandable to feel hurt and confused. Relationships should be about mutual respect and support. If he’s not willing to communicate or take responsibility for his actions, that’s a big red flag. Focus on yourself and your well-being; surround yourself with supportive friends and family. Remember, you deserve someone who values you and your feelings. Take your time to heal and reflect on what you truly want in a relationship.