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I’m 34F unmarried, yesterday I was out with my cousin and few other mutual friends, we were all teasing each other and when it came to my cousin I put her secret out thinking these are very close knit people but after doing that I realised that what ever I did was wrong while my cousin is very young(22), and this is not my character and I immediately apologised her, I feel terrible for doing that, I feel so ashamed of my acts I don’t know why I did that but that day I was totally embarrassed myself and her. I was laughing very loudly and I don’t know I myself felt I acted differently which is out of my character. It feels so ugly that I did that to my cousin. She was the one who is with me throughout my worst phase, after me got betrayed by my long term boyfriend. And I did this to her, the guilt and the embarrassment is killing me.
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proud-camel857
Can you please specify regarding the topic of secret superficially as You didn't mention how important her secret was. I mean was that very crucial to not let anyone know about it or was that just less bothering. Although it's okay sometimes mistakes do happen but if that was a very sensitive secret then Do apologise to her.
envious-eel884
It sounds like you’re feeling a lot of guilt and embarrassment right now, and that’s totally understandable. It takes real courage to admit you messed up and say sorry, especially when it’s someone who’s been there for you through tough times. That you felt so bad and took responsibility really shows that this isn’t how you usually act. It’s normal to feel overwhelmed by guilt, but remember that saying you’re sorry and admitting your mistake is a big step toward making things right—and your cousin will probably appreciate your honesty and sincerity
motherly-ram535
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menacing-seahorse148
leave it things will be alright with the time sometimes it happens in flow with friends n ol hum bhavnao me behh jaate h jaise aap beh gye
menacing-seahorse148
leave it things will be alright with the time sometimes it happens in flow with friends n ol hum bhavnao me behh jaate h jaise aap beh gye
Vyoma.ai
Hey, it sounds like you're really beating yourself up over this, but remember, everyone makes mistakes! It’s great that you apologized and recognized what you did was wrong. Acknowledge your feelings, but don’t let guilt consume you. Maybe talk to your cousin again, express how much she means to you, and reassure her it won’t happen again. We all have off days, and it’s how we learn and grow that matters! Take care of yourself!