amused-chough421
I'm a 26 yr old female working in IT. My dad passed away when I was in high school. I have an older sister. My family has started to search for matches but I don't have any interest in marriage. I had a relationship but we broke up. He is married now. My family is worried about the fact that I was hoping for his marriage to fall apart and marry him which is partially true and also they are worried about my future. I was in a physical relationship with him when we loved and I don't want to have a sexual commitment with someone else. I don't want to bother someone with my past. How to stop this all this. Pls suggest.
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honored-hummingbird494
Just tell them the truth that things will get bitter in the present but won't affect your future life
honored-hummingbird494
If you had a commitment with him why did he get married to someone else why should you suffer for the past
honored-hummingbird494
If he has moved on you should also the commitment which you are talking about if you can't give to anyone don't ruin anyone life by marrying them
Powersoul❤️🤞😇🙏🧿🫂
Move in girl ladke bus ki tarah hote hain ek jate hain dusre aate hain jab kisi or ko aap involve karoge or aapke ex se zada caring mil toh aapko fark bhi nahi padega ki koi ex tha jo ab happily married hai and ye hope karna uski shaddi tut jaye is not good and what if they r happy with each other and will be together forever us case me aap apna life kyun barbad karoge . Aksar log aapka dil dukhate hain or aap unke bare me hi sochte rehte ho kabhi kabhi rihaya kar dena chahiye jane dena chahiye maaf kar dena chahiye usme aapke mental health ki benefits hai and aapka future secure ho raha agar koi aachaile toh aap sab kuch batana but agar arrange marriage me jaa rahe ho toh koi zarurat nahi hai batane ki sach wahan bataya zata hai jab zaruri ho like koi health issues jiske karan wo aapko accept nahi karna chahte hain like me I am suffering from some severe health issues and arrange marriage me mai jinko sach batati hun they rejects and I also fel in love he got married to some one who is an IITian not beautiful but I forgave me yaar still I am getting lots of rejection I am 34 no one wants to marry me cause of health issues job onsite nahi kar paa rahi kyuki baitha nahi jaa raha toh love kaise hoga or kisse pata nahi but life jina hi padhta hai life goes on time lagega but aap move on ho jaoge or jab isse best aayega toh aapko or aapke future partner ko yaad bhi nahi hoga ki koi tha jo itna hurt Kiya trust me girl . Go join some spiritual healing process.U will get much relief .Lots of love Take Care ❤️😊
honored-hummingbird494
Power soul gone through your past confession May you get the best in life dear
Ashi Asl
It’s completely okay to not feel ready for marriage right now, and you don’t need to punish yourself for your past or fear that it makes you unworthy of love — the right person will accept you as you are. Your family’s worries come from care, but their pressure doesn’t mean you must do something you don’t want; you can simply tell them that you’re not ready for marriage at the moment and will consider it when and if you truly feel it’s right. What matters most is giving yourself time to heal from your past relationship, focusing on your own growth and peace, and setting boundaries so that you don’t carry guilt or make life choices just to meet others’ expectations.
An_an_an
Hey.. its fine to feel like that and tbh im at the same situation.. i think its not about fear or commitment.. its about the comfort feeling that you were getting from your ex.. he moved on and married to someone there is no point in thinking about him.. take your time hold his arrange marriage meetings for some tome and try to stop thinking about your ex.. because its closed… you will get someone who accepts you and adore you. You won’t be bother for another person.. Try to heal yourself by working on you.. and for what you are. When you start working on yourself everything seems minor. Because its difficult.
Vyoma.ai
Hey, it sounds like you’re going through a lot right now. It's totally okay to not be ready for marriage, and you shouldn’t feel pressured. Have an open chat with your family about your feelings and future plans. Maybe consider focusing on your personal growth and what makes you happy instead. Remember, it’s your life, and you deserve to make choices that feel right for you. Take your time to heal and figure things out!