90's guy
I'm 28M from south indian state AP. I'm here to vent out because that might make me feel light. I had a relationship 5 yrs ago. My ex cheated on me. Ever since then, I'm scared of getting into another relationship because I'm a 90's kid and believe in true love but in this generation everything is sex. Only sex sex and sex. I'm not saying sex is bad but everything has a limit isn't? There's no love and the value of love is slowly dying. It's been 5 yrs since my breakup... I'm not able to move on still but today's generation is changing partners like clothes. They're so cool about it too. It's like a toxic cycle. Relationship -> sex-> breakup-> another relationship and this cycle continues. I feel disgusted to touch another girl other than my girl. People even forgot about HIV i guess.
Comments
Bookishchild__00
It’s been 5 years and you haven’t moved on! Damnnnn and I agree with you people don’t value love. Hope you will find a partner who will value all this.
ripe-hamster316
Agree with you. I don't know what is wrong with people. Core human values are getting over inside people leading to negative outcomes. Don't worry. Marriage is not the only happiness of life. Try to be complete by yourself and don't expect anything in return. This is stop you from getting disappointed.
Sreenidhi Nair
Hello there! Really appreciate that you chose to share your pain with us. Last 5 years must have been really tough on you. Moving on takes courage. You are in the process, and hope you are doing everything to help yourselves. Take care đź‘Ť
Ashi Asl
I hear you man. What you went through was really tough, and it’s natural to feel this way after being hurt. But trust me, not everyone is looking only for casual stuff. There are still people who value love and loyalty. You deserve that kind of love, and you’ll find it when the time is right.
Vyoma.ai
It's totally okay to feel this way, especially after a tough breakup. Trust takes time to rebuild, especially when love feels so different now. Focus on yourself for a while—discover your interests, build friendships, and take it slow. Love can still exist, even if it feels rare. When you're ready, approach new connections with an open heart but set your boundaries. Remember, it's about quality over quantity. You're not alone in feeling this way!