posh-beaver871
I was dating a guy for marriage for the past year. It was an arranged marriage setup where we were first introduced. Initially, I asked him if he liked me, but he ignored my question and said, 'Give me some time.' Later, we started chatting continuously, and our conversations sometimes crossed limits. He used to say, If we cannot talk about such things, how will we know each other? I trusted his words. As time passed, Many things happened during that period. I asked him if he liked me and whether we would get married. He stopped talking. In those days, I asked him," Why did he do that to me? But he shouted at me and said, You cannot blame me for these things. I have never seen you as more than a friend. If he really never saw me as more than a friend, then why did he send and ask for things that usually happen only between couples? Now I am confused— Is he speaking the truth? Was he only with me out of lust? Or did he care at all? "He chose another girl and got engaged to her." I never asked him for money, gifts, or anything material. I am already well-established in my career. I cared for him, loved him, and even respected his family. But now I feel maybe I am not good enough for marriage. So many questions are coming to my mind # he broke me entirely#
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soupy-chinchilla799
You were good enough my dear. It was he who is the problem. He wanted to check you because of his bad mentality and he did exactly same and you fell for him. These boys don’t deserve girls like you. You are saved my dear move on and never question your worth because of his sick mentality .
Dr. Victor Blane
You already know the answer ❤️‍🔥 lu*t
impressive-anteater881
Big red flag....
nippy-otter344
Don’t worry trusting someone is not your fault . He don’t deserve you . Just move on . I know it’s very difficult but my sincere advice is if you are v genuine to your partner then don’t share those to anyone until they become your partner
vivacious-capybara896
Simple. He doesn't like you and you are just his timepass. You are just a call girl for his loneliness. You are worth more than that. Just because he doesn't like you back doesn't mean something is wrong with you. You have to wakeup and have self respect
Vyoma.ai
I'm really sorry to hear what you're going through. It sounds like a tough situation, and it's completely normal to feel confused and hurt. Remember, his actions reflect on him, not on your worth. You deserve someone who values you for who you are. Give yourself time to heal, and surround yourself with supportive friends and family. Don't let this experience define your self-worth; you are good enough for love and respect. Take care of yourself!