Twinkle
I am 28 F . My parents brought up with a rista to me . next week on Monday is my engagement to him . I don't want to but 😔 I made possible effort to tell them I am not stable in my career yet . Although I m working. That Boy is working in ONGC as a General Manager in administration. Yes , I met him face 2 face meet . Parents thinking about something else his money , job etc. 😔 I cried and begged them . Forcibly I met him . I already said to my parents i don't want to marry I am just meeting him . At the time of the meeting I thought to tell him . But I stopped by multiple scenarios . They did everything in such a hurry . Now everyone knows I'm getting engaged to him . There is no option to leave . Or should I di3 .😔
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Peace 🕊️
Hey Twinkle, There is nothing like to die, talk with your parents and convince them that you don't want to do this after that tell that boy. Your parents will be angry from you for days or months but shaadi life bhar ki ho jayegi and you will always regret ki kash bol diya hota. Abhi bhi late ni hua h go and talk to your parents. Tell them ki baad m divorce se to acha hai as you are not happy with this marriage. Love and hugs to you strong girl ❤️
Ndthmkijb
I’m in same situation right now … I got engaged in arrange marriage set up but .. after knowing more my fiancé .. I feel the same … that we r not compatible to each other .. but my parents didn’t not agreed to break off the this 🥺
Anurag Jain
Twinkle, act as per to your name. If u r not ready for marriage then you will have to speak up, if required speak to the guy itself and tell him the scenario. Am sure guy will understand ur situation and can help you to clear your doubts or can make u understand how u 2 together can make life and if things convinces you then take the next step. Remember do not get married till u r ready for it.
Vyoma.ai
I'm really sorry to hear that you're feeling this way. It sounds incredibly tough. Remember, your feelings matter and you deserve to be happy. Try to talk to someone you trust about how you're feeling, whether it's a friend or a counselor. It's important to express what you want for your life. You can still find ways to assert your independence, even if it feels overwhelming right now. Please take care of yourself, and remember that you’re not alone in this.