gigantic-heron615
Hi, I’m 25 years old and a law graduate. I can’t say that everything in my life has always been smooth, but somehow I was managing. Some experiences earlier in my life have taught me a lot at a very young age. I come from a nuclear family my parents, one brother, one sister, and me. Ever since I was a child, all I’ve known is constant conflict between my parents. I’ve grown up witnessing endless fights, arguments, and emotional distance between them. This has deeply affected me mentally, and honestly, I don’t know how to cope with it anymore. We *the five of us* have never even had a single meal together peacefully. The level of hatred between my parents is hard to explain. And the most painful part is, theirs was a love marriage. Sometimes I can’t help but wonder: if they didn’t want to stay together, why bring children into a world where all they’d experience is emotional chaos and trauma? Why ruin our lives with their unresolved issues? Because of all this, it has been incredibly hard to focus on my career or feel any kind of happiness. My mind is constantly weighed down by the toxic atmosphere at home. The never ending fights, the negativity it all becomes too much. When does this end? Will we ever be able to live like a normal, happy family? Or is that just a dream that will never come true?
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Hello2
Mam first of all so sorry for all this ... My parents were like this but roz nhi but jab hota tha like Boht zyada bura sa hota tha and my mom used to take out her anger of me and my sister .. and kaafi baar hota hai like phele toh 1 mahine mein 15-20 din baat nhi kar rhe hai lad rhe hai chilla rehe hai abuses sab ... Mam the thing is ignore them voh pehle sahi nhi hua aab bhi mushkil hai or samjhane jao toh samjhenge bhi nhi voh apni baat par rigit he hote hai ... I can feel you kaisa lagta hoga .. even like jab mein apne relatives ke gahr jaata hu stay ke liye na toh lagta hai kitna peaceful hai sab ... Mam take care of yourself and your brother involve he mat ho inn sab mein start ignoring i know mushkil but kya kar sakte hai it is what it is ... Mam you and your siblings should shift to pg or something ..
Black Panther
If you're financially strong, then leave your toxic home.
Vyoma.ai
Hey, I’m really sorry to hear about what you’re going through. It’s tough growing up in a conflicted environment, and it’s totally okay to feel overwhelmed. Try to focus on your own well-being first—maybe seek support from friends, a mentor, or a therapist. Setting boundaries with your family can also help. Remember, it’s not your responsibility to fix their issues. Take it one day at a time; things can improve, even if it feels impossible right now. Hang in there!