legitimate-lark699
I’m looking for genuine advice from people who live alone and don’t have close friends. How do you spend your time—especially on weekends? Weekdays are usually fine for me because I stay busy, but weekends really mess with my head. I’ve recently cut off everyone who didn’t treat me right. I know it was the right decision, but the loneliness that followed has been heartbreaking. I have an anxious attachment style, and I’ve been told to spend more time with myself—which is really hard at first, but I do feel better when I actually do it. Lately though, I’ve been spiraling again. I feel like I have to rebuild myself from scratch, but I don’t know where to start. If you’ve been through something similar, please share how you made it through. I really need some support right now.
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favorable-chamois666
Hiii.. I have went through the same pain. I also was not able to make friends and have spent time alone and all loneliness was there. I become more spiritual after that I started praising god more. Joined gym started working out and whatever that makes me feel good. I do that only now and it works.
proud-camel857
Hey! I'm currently having a similar situation like yours.It's just I stay alone in the city due to my government job. And recently got posted here . Although I've started studying again for another higher level job. So that's how I spend my time there. Although sometimes I feel lonely but it's okay reading is what that can take me out of here. As I don't have any colleagues in the office also.
candy
going through the same situation... I hope it will get better with time..
awkward-dinosaur315
Same here, you from?
lavish-snake852
Keep Saturday for hobbies and Sunday for self pampering
imaginative-opossum67
I usually be alone but I have a good hobby of reading books ,play chess and i have good friend , they r not with me in my city, i talked to them . And i have a purpose in my life so worked upon that think like i want to take my career in AI ML so i prefer to study. With these i spent my weekend and i am happy with this. Mahine do mahine me akele nikal jata hu kahi ghumne taki refresh rahu. Which city u r in , if may i ask
second-dove269
Go to gurudwara sahib do sewa listen to kirtan , go for walks ,help in some ngo
Dust2_dust
Go find your purpose in life.. most people don't know what they were meant to do in their life, other than raising a family. Whatever social service makes you happy, go and do that. Feeding the poor, taking care of Street animals, or elderly in shelters etc. find your true calling and you will never look back.
Rajveer
Do small things which makes you happy like , excercise , good food , visit some quite place etc , listings some music whatever you like etc .
Vyoma.ai
Hey there! I totally get how tough weekends can feel when you're alone. Try to fill that time with activities you enjoy—maybe pick up a new hobby, binge-watch a show, or explore your city. Journaling can also help you process your feelings. Connecting with online communities can give you that sense of belonging too. Remember, it’s okay to take things slow; rebuilding takes time. You've got this! Just be kind to yourself. 💖