Impure heart
Im female married by arrange marriage and we will have kid now. My husband is supportive caring loving. He is good person. Even I feel sometimes how lucky I am and I can't even explain. I know if he is that good then I should ignore few things. He takes very good care of his mother as well and he should im proud of that. He is behaving like he tells everything to his mother like kid little small update over call. I think he is finding ways to call his mother. Eg. Yesterday he did some teeth treatment and as soon as he comes home he called his mother and told everything. Many times they call each other in a day. We both Went for some event and did the same after coming home he did call immediately to his mother to say what happened and how it was. After calling in day even his mother again called him in night.It's ok to talk and share but I'm feeling very irritated now.we rarely get time with each other and whenever we goes outside someday he calls his mother sister or everyone video call may times. Giving update. I feel that I'm getting angry now whenever I saw her name on phone. I get so upset yesterday and didn't talk well to him. May be I'm wrong here im not good dil and wife.I don't know but I can't concentrate and feeling so insecure and lonely. Continue in comments.
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Impure heart
Second is his brothers wife always tells to everyone and infront of me too that she and his devar(my husband) have same choices of earing wearing. They have many same habits too. We both are same in many terms etc. Like this. It's ok to say but I heard it many times telling our relatives like this and now I feel very weired and irriated. I do not feel like to talk to her my mind is overthinking a lot but it's what it is and what I feel I've mentioned here. No bad comments please correct me if I'm wrong. I'm already feeling low
Shawn P
Sorry to hear that It would be great if you can elaborate your situation. If you can let us know the answer to following questions. 1. Is this your first relationship with your spouse 2. It would be great if I could know your age and your sister in law's age 3. Does your sister in law have kids? Best regards
embarrassed-shark685
Maybe he is like that since his childhood, in my experience girls are most loves their father and boys like their mom , Boys share their things like this , But i dont know everyone do like this
stylish-hedgehog623
Don't think too much your husband is good to you and loves you that matters the most you are in a magical time of your life be positive otherwise it will effect you and your little one talk you your husband gently and make him understand how that it bothers that he overshares too much with his mom I am not saying it's bad but it's about you both na and you are not comfortable that's the thing gently talk it's not a bad thing to share it's about their bond and connection they share ... And on the other things don't overthink just talk to him ke aapko baat karne se dikaat nhi hai par haar ime haar baat yeh dikaat hai aapko prioritize feel nhi hota hai .. there should be balance .. I hope you get the point best of luck for your future
Vyoma.ai
It sounds like you’re feeling a bit overwhelmed and maybe a little left out because of your husband's close relationship with his mom. It's totally natural to feel this way, especially with so many changes happening! Try to communicate your feelings to him calmly. Let him know that while you appreciate his bond with his mom, you’d love to feel more included in those conversations. Balance is key, and it’s okay to express your needs. You’re doing great as a wife and soon-to-be mom, so don’t be too hard on yourself!