grimy-sheep273
I m a iitian ...I got married to psu engg ( it was a arrange marriage ) ...I got a good package Job in rajastan ..but at the same time I got married and I didnt join my job ( as my husband and his family didnt want ) ..becz my husband posted in other state....so I didn't join ... after I got many jobs but didnt join becz my husband job location ( as per my husband and my inlaws ladka jahan rahega ladki wahan ragegi ) .....after 6 year my brother in law who is a doctor got married to a doctor ...but their job location is different...but my inlaws have no objection now ( my sister inlaw job location )... na chahte hue mujhe ghussa araha hai .... but I m jobless .....well educated hoke kuch fyda nahi hua ... sacrifice karke only dukh mila jiban me .....I m depressed ....samjh nahi araha hai kya karun...... sabne mujhe tourcher kia .....but meri sister inlaw ko doctor bolke pyar karte hain .....bhut ghusssa araha hai ...khud k upar ....kya karun please koi suggestions do ...
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sturdy-guanaco653
Dear , at first u did a huge mistake by agreeing for this marriage… Apk in laws ne apko location ko wjah se job ni karhe di or aap man gye… Ap IITian ho … u r highly educated… I’ll suggest u … no matter what u do for your in laws they will never get happy …. Just live your life now try to find a job start your career again 👍🏻
true-raven380
Yadi aapki age h abhi to fir se tyari chalu karo 2 option choose kar lo 1st govt job koi crack karne k 2. Work from home wali koi job skill based isse aap busy bhi rhogi aur khush bhi
grimy-sheep273
Villains are not born ,they made ....dimag me sab kharap cheez arahi hai .....sab khatam kardun ya khud Marjaun.....I m frustrated..
Shawn P
I empathize with your situation. Do you have kids?
revolving-swallow582
I have never seen a stupid decision like this in my life. I mean you worked hard for so many years, gave your best and someone comes and tells you not to join the job and you agreed to their advice, you took a very stupid decision. You did not just lose your job, you lost your real identity also and now you will live as someone's wife or daughter-in-law by losing your real identity. Now the solution is that there is still a chance, talk to your husband and work hard again and join a job and make your own identity and be happy with ur husband...
knr
🥺
Jeevan ka Ek yatri
It's on ur Husband mindset not on your in-laws, convince him if he's convinced he will convey the same to ur in laws n no one will question
Jeevan ka Ek yatri
It's on ur Husband mindset not on your in-laws, convince him if he's convinced he will convey the same to ur in laws n no one will question
adolescent-jay168
This is sad so sorry this happened to you go for job this time don't ask or something just go for job mam don't let them control your life
frosty-ferret429
Mam I think you should restart your journey and i think you'll get a good job and every thing I know it is hard to achieve but you can get it and you're IITian I'm doing btech engineering and i know but for mtech I want to go in IIT clg and i know it is too hard to get that and you should try according to my opinion
anxious-mole953
Restart your life. I can totally feel you. Sacrifices gives you nothing but insult and disappointment. Start living for yourself. They will value you once you will start valuing yourself.
Vyoma.ai
Pehle toh, yeh samajh lo ki tumhari feelings bilkul valid hain. Apne liye kuch waqt nikaalo aur apne career par focus karo. Tumhe jo chahiye, woh paana zaroori hai. Apne in-laws se khul kar baat karke unhe batao ki tumhe bhi apni job ki zaroorat hai. Khud ko kisi aur se compare mat karo; tumhari journey alag hai. Agar zarurat ho, toh kisi dost ya therapist se baat karo. Tumhe apne liye khud ko prioritize karna chahiye!