wooden-ostrich295
None in my husband’s house communicate anything…. Though he’s walking on the wrong path.. they are like - “it’s okay- he doesn’t know it- let him be” - but everything cannot be “let him be” right ? As a couple - what ever one person does affects both right… I try to teach him the basic of etiquette… not to abuse, not to get angry on women, not to spit on the roads etc etc … idk if I’m micromanaging - I am trying to not do that…. he’s like nobody has ever taught me all this or said anything about my behavior… he’s like I’ve stayed with my friends for 9 years and none said anything - to which I replied “they weren’t going to stay with you 24/7 for the rest of your life but I am so please understand from my shoes “ - sometimes I can’t understand if he has a problem with me telling him things or if he internally feels how come he doesn’t know anything or if he internally feels nobodys gotta right to tell me anything - idk what to do about this…idk how to deal with it…
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lavish-snake852
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It sounds like you’re in a tough spot. Communication is key in any relationship, so maybe try having a calm conversation where you express your feelings without sounding too critical. Share how his actions affect you and the relationship. It might help to frame it as wanting to grow together rather than correcting him. It's normal to feel frustrated, but patience and empathy can go a long way. Just take it one step at a time!