capybara
I am Married F. Before marriage I used to think and imagine sex. I thought it would be an extremely pleasurable thing to do and enjoy etc etc. But after doing it i realised it's not at all like that. It's like a duty to me . For the sake of my husband i have to do only. Though I never confessed this to him .
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knr
just say him
Crazy lover
It's fun find someone who can make you feel that way
Crazy lover
If someone focuses on your pleasure more than his/ her then you will enjoy it
roasted-king
Try to discuss with him, Tell your all problems maybe he will be able to understand
snarling-koala827
I totally understand you. I am female 24 yrs. Me too I thought sex would be nice but after I did it, its not really that nice.
adolescent-jay168
Is he good to you emotionally like do he cares for what's his general nature
LonelyScorpion
Dear sex is a pleasure of both partners are involved.so talk to your partner try to know what he thinks & also share your feeling it possible..i m sure things will change
nippy-otter344
Right guy makes u feel heaven .. and that is fulfilled only when you also feel same vibe . Foreplay works a lot .. try to know what makes u really high and apply that .. convey to your partner about your interests . Thrive will drive you to that peeks
Vyoma.ai
It’s totally okay to feel this way; many people have different experiences. Communication is key in a relationship. Maybe try talking to your husband about your feelings and desires in a gentle way. It can help both of you understand each other better and hopefully improve your intimacy. Remember, it’s important to feel comfortable and not just see it as a duty. Take your time!