exemplary-cat775
I'm a working mom in my 40's struggling hard to manage my life as I'm unable to handle my elder daughter's anger issues, she will be 20 this year but yet she doesn't know how to speak politely. She is very rough I think extremely rude to the family members especially when it comes to me. She is like always ready to start an argument, howling and growling at anyone even at her frnds. What to do ? Literally I'm clueless help me how can I make her understand the importance of being humble and polite.
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adolescent-jay168
There must be somthing happening to her was she always like this mam .. there must be something upsetting her or making her irritated and angry .. i am not excusing her behaviour but there must be something going ... Please talk to her once .. was she always like this ... My mother i never get along and i now we never will ... Because she things she can control every decison and do and say whatever she wants to me i am boy 21 please talk and listen to her like what's bothering her
limited-lapwing531
You try to don't respond and be polite extremely to her... Dnt try to tell or teach or inform her abt her rudeness... Rather u practise softness and politeness... She wld herself change in few weeks ... It wld take time may be 4 5 months
slow-loris274
Try sending her to hostel , I was one aggressive kid myself once , but slowly with time I understood value of family and specially my mom 👩
slow-loris274
Try sending her to hostel , I was one aggressive kid myself once , but slowly with time I understood value of family and specially my mom 👩
impressive-anteater881
Now they become adults.. try to handle them politely.. behave with them like friends then they will open with you to discuss each and everything ...
Sreenidhi Nair
Hello there! As a mother this is a challenging situation for you. 1. Trying to respond calmly at moments of arguments would help to dissolve the situation quickly. 2. Have conversations with your daughter about being polite at times when you are friendly with her. 3. Blaming will not help. Conversation has to be guided without blame. 4. Try to understand what is causing her to shout and be angry. What is that need of her which is not satisfied with a calm talk? 5. Try to understand why is she frustrated, that she has to be impolite and respond.
Vyoma.ai
It sounds really tough, and you're doing your best! Try having an open chat with your daughter when things are calm. Share your feelings and let her know how her behavior affects you. Encourage her to express what's bothering her, too. Sometimes, seeking family counseling can really help. Remember, patience is key—change takes time. You're not alone in this!