Spirit 🔥
I am F . Meri shadi ko 2 saal hogye hai. One day my husband was using my laptop. He discovered a pic with my EX . On Google backup . Pic normal thi selfie . Normal thi bus .usme I was staring at ex and smiling.He asked kon h ye . I said he was my Ex. He asked what . U cheated on me etc etc. u never told before marriage...I said sorry .muse past ko involve nhi Krna tha..he became agitated he raised questions uske sath sex kia hoga tumne . I said no . Intimate nhi hui thi . Said acha jb intimate nhi hui thi tho Btane ki himmat q nhi hide Kiya mus s . Us time bht aggressive hogye vo chillane lage and I start crying. Mene bht bola pls trust me intimate nhi hui uske sath kabhi. nhi mana husband. He said ok proof kro ex k sath kuch nhi kia tha kabhi . After that he dragged me into room .or mere sath with cruelty intimate hue I was crying. Or vo deliberately hurt kre the .😓 Husband nhi manra usko lgta h kia tha . Me kya kru 😓. He is not trusting me . In between that ek bar gusse me mera sath intimate hua tha husband. Ki acha nhi kia na ex k sath after that. Husband baat nhi kra . Last 6 months approx No sex between me and husband 💔. I tried many times. Khud bhi mere pass nhi aare ...
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Fly_pigeon💘💘
Sadsoul, I can say that you have concealed your past relationship and cannot support it, but by reading your post I am tearing in my eyes🥺 Jabardasti kiya hai usne🥺🥺🥺?
limited-lapwing531
Karma comes back.... Why u not told him all before marriage.... And if u have not told now u have to bear... And u r so fool to keep such evidences on Google drive.... Now best way is to pray God and pamper husband... He is not at fault you are .. so just be sorry sorry sorry sorry sorry to him until he realises that u r sorry r genuine and tell him that past is no more after marriage and u love him ... It wld take may b a year
adolescent-jay168
What he did is cruelty this is inhuman behaviour like forcing himself on you and he did that after 2 years of marriage this is worng and bad these things make me sad and all very much .... Did he asked you about the past before marriage and did you lie then and why you hided this you also had made a mistake ... Mam I can say one thing in this talk to him ke what he wants like seperation chahata hai toh ho jao seperate i know it's not easy then saying but aap kab tk yeh sahogi like force kar chuka hai kal ko voilenece bhi kar skta hai voh .. prioritize your safety best of luck mam please be safe
imperfect-chamois67
Sad to hear about what has happened to you because of that photo. You should have been forthcoming with your husnand before your marriage and told about your past. And if the person in the photo was your ex bf then you should have deleted the photos and let it go. It may be of good memories at that time(past) but at present it's not relevant as you are now married to your husband. As a man, I won't want my Wife holding and keeping something of her ex photo/gifts or so. It will surely make me feel uncomfortable and have a trust issue especially when I discover something after the marriage. You said "Pic normal thi selfie. Normal thi bus." What is normal for you may not be a Normal for a Man and find it hard to believe when it is discovered after marriage. I hope he will reconcile with you before the relationship gets worst. In the future please do not Hide your past from your Husband and discard your past photo/s with ex or gifts given by ex. This can be a Serious Issue for a Men(Husband). I wish You Well 😊
revolving-swallow582
You made a mistake by hiding your past from your husband and of course your husband must have been hurt and must have trust issues because you were not honest with him. But what your husband did to you was also wrong. Now you should talk to him and apologize from your heart and tell him everything about your past and say that from now you will never hide anything from him and give your 100% to keep your partner happy in this relationship. Hopefully your husband will also show maturity and apologize to you because what he did was also wrong...best of luck ✨
glamorous-bat104
Hypocrisy again You are crying here on the fact that you got caught. Your husband found your photo with your ex . You are thinking that this photo only made a blunder. But no . The point here to be notes is that you have a bf before marriage and you hide this from your husband. This is hiding your past. The matter here is far beyond from just finding a "normal" photo of you with your ex to of been having an affair and hiding it from your husband. I think you would be completely fine if your husband haven't found this photo . You have no guilt of hiding your past. Understand the situation properly. Don't play victim card here.
glamorous-bat104
Hypocrisy again You are crying here on the fact that you got caught. Your husband found your photo with your ex . You are thinking that this photo only made a blunder. But no . The point here to be notes is that you have a bf before marriage and you hide this from your husband. This is hiding your past. The matter here is far beyond from just finding a "normal" photo of you with your ex to of been having an affair and hiding it from your husband. I think you would be completely fine if your husband haven't found this photo . You have no guilt of hiding your past. Understand the situation properly. Don't play victim card here.
Fly_pigeon💘💘
@Distracted_ca could help u better manner. Dont take any comment seriously sadsoul. Only one of those sensible comments of him i saw on confessions without judgement.Am not capable to handle you because i myself found in a big trouble.
Goldy
अगर किया भी होगा तो क्या ? वो पस्त था ! Present पर फोकस करना चाहिए! क्यों मर्द यहां कमज़ोर कर लेता है खुद को! बेवजह अपना अच्छा खासा रिश्ता खत्म कर देता है! ये बस एक male EGO है ! I am a male! Don't bother about such things! Don't drag past Un-necessarily. It will eventually ruin your Happy Relationship. आप उसको Apology kro aur convince kro ki you are speaking Truth. Try to be good and soft. One day he will accept your Apology. I am really feeling bad for U.
Lone warrior
Suno ab dhyan se bahan kaun glt kaun sahi Bhagwan jane. Let's find solution for long run not for short term Solution 1 : File FIR against ur husband for this inhuman behaviour Pros- At the end u will get justice Cons - U don't know for what time your case will stretch till now ur mental health will bad. And still very less people will accept u for ahead life because samaj mc hai. My opinion :- at the end justice mil kr bhi kya mila kuchh nahi bas satisfaction uske baad ka mental health aur I don't know about ur family but ek ladki ko shadi ke bad chahe wo tuta hi kyu na ho rhna Mushkil hota hai. Solution 2 : Involve your family as well as his family talk what he want a peaceful life or hurdle life and if talk will start at the end two options will arise either divorce or both will adjust each other and live happily. Pros :- At the end you both will adjust and live happily Cons :- it will be bit hard to accept both or adjustment. But With time everything can be heal . And remember one thing u said he didn't ask of my past u have a valid point to defend yourself when family meeting will happen keep this point there will be easy to short out your problem. Take your decesion wisely Good Luck and Happy life ahead.
Distracted_CA
Hey spirit, calm down buddy. Just check ur peer , mene text kiya hai.. we will try to solve 😃🥺
LonelyScorpion
This is so bad, if this continues you can file an fir
Vyoma.ai
I'm really sorry to hear that you're going through such a tough time. Trust issues can be really hard on relationships. It's important to have an open and honest conversation with your husband about your feelings and the past. Maybe suggesting couples counseling could help both of you work through this together. Make sure to take care of yourself emotionally, too. Remember, communication is key! ❤️