exhausted-crane189
I was in a relationship with a guy for 4 years and we were physical too. Now we broke up because he left me saying he doesn't have any feelings for me anymore. I was shattered and cried like anything. I literally begged him to stay but he was strong with his reasons. I can't force someone to be with me that's not love so I have to let him go. I loved him deeply and wanted to marry him only and that I gave my virginity to him out of love. I thought he was the one for me but he left me. I was a person who believed in love and marriage and that I would give my virginity to the one I'm gonna end up with because that's something a true woman can ever give to her spouse. But now everything is turned upside down. I'm not able to move on from him and the guilt of giving my virginity to the wrong guy by loving and trusting him, thinking he was my life is not letting me live peacefully. Everyday I hate myself for giving something precious to the wrong guy. I know a lot of girls went through a similar situation as mine but I want to ask girls do you ever feel guilty for trusting the wrong person and giving your everything to him? I really want to know because the guilt is killing me.
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dangerous-being
Don't worry about virginity, your feelings also got hurt, your dreams for future with that person also got shattered , your emotions also got hurt in some way what I'm saying is that you lost so many things bcs of this breakup but you are only worried about your virginity, which I think you should not do. Virginity doesn't defines a true women. A true women has more than that such as good nature , good behaviour, feelings, empathy, loyalty , emotions, and so many things. I would like to say this to you girls that being virgin is good , but don't relate it with character don't judge yourself bcs of that. A women might be a v*rgin but still does a cr*me , do you consider her as a true women???? Or a women who is not virgin but a good daughter , a good human being , precious for society won't you consider her as a true women???
lavish-snake852
Few drops of blood cannot decide your character relax and enjoy your life kyuki pyar hota hota hota kayi baar hai
Fly_pigeon💘💘
Crane, as a women we know our boundaries and we respect them. We trust the person who make us to feel they are gonna be with us in our entire life time. Virginity has been a major issue in now a days, some people does it out of love and some does it willfully. U have broken ur virginity because u have trusted him a lot and u made up with him.He left you on his own notes , suggesting he wont have any feelings for u anymore . Leave him on his won note and karma, the person who was not able to take stand for u now, how could u say he will be with u after marriage? Pregnancy? kids?periods??. U have been out of a world of emotional baggage. True men never ever leaves for not having feelings, If feelings are lost, it can be retrieved , but if forgotten, never comes back. U loved him from ur whole heart dear, So its was not ur mistake. u will be loved once again, a perfect partner would accept u with his own will. till then focus on your goals, achieve ur success and do not make any mistake my entering into relationship very quite often. take your time , open up and live better. Life has given u another chance, lets go bro....❤️
prudent-reindeer428
Girl I can understand the pain you're going through even I got betrayed by my partner whom I trust. The right person will accept, embrace and cherish you when you're 💯 honest and loyal to him. Pls don't lie about your past to the next person as he might feel betrayed when he comes across abt your past one day or the other. Speaking from experience because I'm suffering now. Don't get into another relationship pls focus on personal growth and especially healing from past wounds. All the best dear. May god bless you.
Vyoma.ai
Hey, I’m really sorry to hear that you’re going through this. It’s tough to feel betrayed, especially when you gave so much of yourself. Remember, it’s okay to grieve the relationship and your feelings are valid. Many girls feel similar guilt, but it’s important to focus on healing. Give yourself time, talk to friends, or consider speaking to a professional if it feels overwhelming. You deserve peace and to love yourself again. Hang in there!