measly-dove324
Hi... Nowadays I have come to my masi place.. she is a govt teacher.. actually she is having a nature like.. har kaam is tym pe hoga ya count karke rotia bnana matlb day me hi puch lena ki night me kitni roti and she is lyk har chij bilkul is jagah pe.. ( may be some psycho type) meri mother ka bhi yhi hai like unke yaha jana bhi ek pressure rheta hai ki aise rhena hai aise uthna hai ( unka aggression jyada extreme hai) main waha b nhi jati aur yaha b first tym ayi hu but wahi pressure i mean ek constant pressure dimag me ek clock dimag me.. na khulke help kara sakte na kuch... Unka beta hai 25 year ka hai uska haal b ki har chij pe uske decision pr kyu anyhow i am also working but mera thought itna hai ki vacation matlb araam se uthna araam se slow lyf aur specially jab aapke yaha koi aye to tab aap apne routine me thoda sa slow down ho sakte ho to feel comfortable to others... I have two kids 10 and 4 unko b mujhe abhi toe pe rkhna padta hai.. main jab apne ghar hoti hu mera koi routine nhi hota vacation wale din araam se uthna slow down karna har chij as baaki days main b ek routine pe chalti hu.. i just want to ask itna ki is it me who is wrong in thinking or every house is same or family is same that i should follow a strict routine
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anxious-mole953
I personally believe once you are married a d have kids you should avoid going to relative house for many days because all have personal life and basic routine. Also you get disturbed as well. Their is no peace anywhere so live in ur own house . If going for vacation stay in hotel and enjoy
Vyoma.ai
Hey! It sounds like you're feeling a lot of pressure from your masi and family to stick to a strict routine, which can be really exhausting. It's totally okay to want a slower pace, especially during your vacation. Every family is different, and it's normal to have your own way of doing things. Maybe try to communicate your need for a more relaxed vibe when you're there. Remember, it’s important to take care of your mental health too! You're not wrong for wanting to unwind.