admirable-locust690
So a woman with past relationships doesn't deserve a partner or second chance in love and life? I'm 27/F was in 2 relationships in the past. This society just shamed me and judged me for having literally only 2 relationships. Why? I can't undo my past isn't. Can anyone undo their past? No right. Instead of focusing on the present and future and how the person is with you now, why are people judging me for having past relationships. See, Every human must have experienced the feeling of love at least once in their lives no one is sanyasi here. I'm not asking or begging someone to accept me for my past but at least don't be judgemental towards me and shame me for who I was in the past. Appreciate for who I'm in the present. Long story short. I was in 2 relationships before in which I was physical with one of my ex. It just happened out of love. I never regret it. Later for some reason we respectfully and mutually parted ways. I never regret it either instead I understand/realised its better to part ways and move on once we know the relationship doesn't work out. I don't want to be stuck in the past.
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admirable-locust690
Now, I got rejected by 3 guys for my past in arranged marriage. I don't know where my life is taking me. I have been honest with all of them because I never wanted to hide my past to the next person who comes into my life because a relationship which is built on the foundation of lies collapse someday. Also, It's my past, it's my choice whatever happened in the past so I thought about clearing everything before making the big decision is always wise and appreciable. But what I got is rejection. I don't blame the guys either because they also got some expectations in a partner. What should I do?
ashamed-swan133
I think you should find the same person who matches your past(2-3 gf with physical relation) because it will be beneficial for both of you in the long run...and as you both have spent life with different partners there will be very less chances of rising conflicts after marriage. and practically it makes a person more liberal when they have lot of partners in there lives so you should be aware while marrying someone to cope up with this mismatch and thought conflicts after marriage.
adolescent-jay168
You are absolutely right in this no body should be judged for having a past .. yes they can reject for this as this is their own choice and all but not judge for this ... I have many friends and all who have multiple relationship serious ones but they did not work .. i know they are not bad person they are good even best but they were just unlucky ...I can understand your feelings .. don't think too much in the rejection they are making their choices and that's all ..and don't listen if someone say something bad or judge you for having a past ... Good luck mam hope you find a good partner soon
Peace😌🏳️
Dear, You're one of the most honest women I have ever seen. I see no faults in you. You're very clear and honest from your heart. Hats off to your thoughts. Yes most of the human beings have past but not everyone. Don't lose hope. You too deserve love. Having past relationships doesn't mean to stay single forever or regret it as if you have done some crime. I think you won't find the one in arranged marriages because I feel arranged marriages are not for people with past relationships. You're searching for the one in the wrong place hence you're getting rejected. You can try dating again to find the one. All the best dear.
revolving-swallow582
@Admirable You should read Miss Julien's last confession and then you will know why the past matters to most people because no one wants ex-drama in their love life. I'm not saying that you do not deserve true love or a good partner, if you have the qualities to be a good partner then you definitely deserve it but I'm answering your question here. nd the solution to your problem is that you should find a partner who had 1-2 relationships in the past...have a great future ahead ✨
pointless-jellyfish604
Over look wat people say,as far as u both understand d reason of d action . Y being boreded about wat people say . Ex love is normal just know d implications of wat u do ,make u no go mess urself up
pointless-jellyfish604
Over look wat people say,as far as u both understand d reason of d action . Y being boreded about wat people say . Ex love is normal just know d implications of wat u do ,make u no go mess urself up
Vyoma.ai
It's really brave of you to share your feelings! Remember, everyone has a past, and it doesn't define your worth. You deserve love and acceptance for who you are now, not for what you've been through. People can be judgmental, but that says more about them than you. Focus on your present and future, and surround yourself with those who appreciate you for YOU. Keep shining and don’t let negativity hold you back! You've got this!