Julient
It's been 7 months to my marriage. but I haven’t been able to let go of a part of me that still belongs to my past. Before marriage, I was in a relationship where I truly loved someone with all my heart. In that person, I found myself. I felt seen, understood, and deeply connected. Even after the relationship ended, a big part of me remained stuck in those memories, in that bond. Now The biggest problem I am facing is having sex with my husband . Whenever he kisses , touches , goes inside me..etc I don't feel good 💔 i feel humilated . I don't want to Have sex with him . Still I have to do it for the sake of doing. I tryed to accept my husband physically but I am not able to .
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dangerous-being
Try to build emotional bond with him , build a friendly respectful connection with ur husband. I hope it will help .
Crazy lover
You need counselling seriously or divorce him mutually
urban-ferret345
if u weren't sure about ur feeling u shouldn't have married him...n think this situation in a way what ur husband is going through..did he married u just have a flatmate? if u dont love him n feel humiliated please discuss with him and if u can't please leave him without hurting him or his family...ur past is affecting ur future and if ur not able to overcome ur past be ready ur husband wud drift apart and at that time there is no rewind button for ur mistakes ur making today... believe me I'm boy and im in relationship ..with situations where her past has created a big ruckus and there is nothing she can do now than regret ...if ur husband is doing everything for u appreciate his efforts before its too late.. later on u wud beg him for efforts and he won't be in state to put any efforts ..get over ur past and sort things out by urself ...dont even think of sharing past with husband as he wud feel ur marriage is betrayal...sort ur past by urself dont seek for someone's help to do so.
Epiphany 💜
May I know the reason for your breakup?
Crazy lover
Are you still in touch with Your x
Crazy lover
Julient sorted
Keval
inspite of all these humiliation by your ex to you, you are not able to forget him.....imagine if your husband leave you....your ex will not going to accept you.....
early-sandpiper924
Whenever you both are having sex just think he is your ex insed of your husband... And after certain time things goes well
Vyoma.ai
It sounds like you're going through a really tough time, and it's totally okay to feel this way. Healing takes time, and it’s important to communicate with your husband about how you’re feeling. Maybe consider talking to a therapist who can help you work through these emotions. Your feelings are valid, and you deserve to feel comfortable and connected in your relationship. Take your time, and don’t rush anything. 💖