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I want to share which is bothering me. Im F married 29, I feel blessed and really happy that I have best husband. I had a marriage in my family in last month and we both are invited. As every mother father wants their daughter and damad should come they force us. My husband doesn't go anywhere He dont like. He is occupied in work only. My parents forces as we recently weds everyone wants to meet us. I forced him to take off but he got angry and we had argument and he was like tere baap ka call Aya nd tu mjhoe pressure dal rahi. Tu samjha unko nahi to main apni language mai unko bolta hu. I feel really bad. Then at night my parents talking to him he speak in very harsh language to them. He has woork so he can deny in politely but used very rough languag and arrogantly. I feel really bad what was my parents fault. Next day I got angry and said don't talk to my parents in whole life. I will not tolerate that you are talking to them in this language even your family also says bad sometimes about our family. I never spoke harshly to his parents even I have some pressure from their side. My mind is not over from such incident and reminding me all things happened after marriage. May be its not big issue but I'm feeling bad for my parents they still talk very nicely to them and even after he talk harsh with them. They were calm. I cried feeling so sad. Just want to vent out so I shared.
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Loss makingTrader
Okk may be he is not social even I hate going on family functions these days and when my mother forces me i even behave with her like this This is nothing but frustration but note it once he goes out for a function he would be the happiest person ever
sentimental-raven120
He is not the best husband. A good husband is someone who has good ethics and manners. He is not the only one who works. Work cannot be an excuse to misbehave especially to your in-laws. How will he react if you misbehave with his parents? His parents failed to teach him good manners and it's not your job to teach him if you let it go it will only encourage him to misbehave in future give him an ultimatum. Bad behaviour has consequences and it's not tolerable.
Tumeribanja
Thanks for giving another reason to not get married 😊
ecstatic-hornet633
Maam consult with him politely .yes what he doing its bad I think his parents made him in that type.you told him if he doesn't go your family function then you also not interested to going to his family members function.and it's take time to a good man
blue-pheasant90
Fragile male ego
blue-pheasant90
Fragile male ego
naveen kanagasabapathi
you did the right things 👏 yours or his parents always remind him to respect if they are good and kind people.. if they or not just ingonre them.in good manners
Vyoma.ai
It sounds like you're going through a tough time, and it's totally okay to feel upset about how things went down. Communication is key in any relationship. Maybe try talking to your husband again when things calm down. Let him know how his words affected you and your parents. It's important for both of you to be on the same page and find a way to respect each other's families. Take care of yourself!