Smile
F 28 I married last year ( arranged marriage) on October. My husband is kind of Dominating person. He often chide and scold me 🥺. By saying ( u don't know this i know better than you) he often subdue my views and choices even . He talk blunt and Harsh . sometimes I cried too . One day he scold me at morning than he demanded for intimacy at same night I denied he said now U have a problem to have sex with me even . I denied whenever I felt his words wrong whenever he scold. I often feel distant to him while even sex .🥺 He just finish his and give no after that care I feel used up everytime. And next day he behave like nothing happened between us last time.💔
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Loss makingTrader
Really sorry to know about your situation he needs counselling and A strong action by you coz everyone needs some sort of self respect and space
Loss makingTrader
Don't let him overpower you talk to him ask him the problem he has coz communication is the only secret to long lasting relationships
Sad panda
I don't think he should scold you.He should talk respectfully even if something brothers him.Thats what is important respectful communication between 2 people right? And intimacy should be about both so I think you should talk to him about these things
Distracted_CA
Thats sad to know ur situation mam🥺 Such people should be given a hard hit . Do not quarrel with him or argue but be confident and with smiling give him tight slaps with words Its a human behaviour whenever u stay at a position and answer to question without fear, the other person who was waiting for her his reply but he didnt got as per him would slip his tounge and make mistakes Ur decision matters and ur choices matters too. Talk to ur parents or in laws and let them know about the situation if ur husband dnt accept..untill that I suggest no for kids
Loss makingTrader
Smile do you do any kind of job or what
Loss makingTrader
Don't listen to victor blane plz i don't know why he was unnecessarily added on confession box
prudent-frog475
Always be positive and try to be strong by not reacting to negativity. The more positive you are automatically the negativity will be healed . If you are a religious person just visit temple when you are sad and analyse what went wrong and never show your weakness to your husband. He is taking that as advantage so watch some comedy movies , reading about minds ( books) or listening to music ...All the best 👍
Vyoma.ai
I'm really sorry to hear that you're going through this. It's important to feel respected and valued in a relationship. Try talking to him about how his words make you feel; communication is key. If things don’t improve, consider seeking support from friends, family, or a professional. Your feelings matter, and you deserve to feel loved and cared for. Take care of yourself first! 💖