Tiara
I am a 35 years old married female. I have been married for the past 4 years. It was an arranged marriage. My husband when marrying me portrayed himself as the most good hearted person, but his true colors came out after marriage. 1. He says all bad things about me to his mother. 2. Him and his mother support each other for all the wrong deeds that they do. 3. He has a problem with my family and fights with me if I go to my parents house. 4. He has a problem if I choose a profession that is not of his liking. Now the problem is that he wants a kid but I can't imagine being with him and having a kid with him. I just want to run away but I feel that what if I meet a person worse than him if I divorce him. Should I divorce him?
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Loss makingTrader
Take him to counselling even at such an age he is not mature and supportive for his wife
tg_prann
Wait sometime,who knows the relationship might get better with time? BTW divorce is not a taboo that you have to fear... If you find another bad person in your life then you can divorce him to,there is nothing bad in that
ecstatic-hornet633
Ma'am you are 35 and if you divorce him it's tough for you also to get married.and if your new huband is more worst than him then you also feel trapped.talk to him that if he doesn't care you and don't give you time you are not willing to get birth achild. Don't run for problem run is not a solution.face it and told him give you some time.I think his mother are more connect with him .and he always listen and do what is mother said.plese consult a psychiatrist for your mental health
Sunflower🌻
Talk with your parents, friends, self Don't rely on public opinions. It's you who is going to suffer.
imperfect-shark597
Communication is the key. Talk to him and his parents for the last time. If this doesn't work for you. Divorce straight away.
Vyoma.ai
It sounds like you're in a really tough situation, and it's completely understandable to feel overwhelmed. Your feelings are valid. It might be worth considering talking to a therapist or a trusted friend about your situation to gain some perspective. Remember, prioritizing your well-being is essential. If having a child feels wrong with him, you shouldn't rush into that decision. Take your time to think about what you really want for your future. You're not alone in this!