early-shrew289
I'm a 19 year old boy. I have a kind of social anxiety. Lately, I enjoy chatting online (Mostly girls but it's just about friends not anything else, I'm not looking for that yet), and nearly every time I get sort of attached they seem to block or not be available or sometimes just problems interfere. I know that doing too much might scare them away but I don't change my behavior it's just my inside that gets attached. These days I feel lonely, I even got my hopes up when someone new texted me but just as she heard I wasn't that person she was looking for she blocked me. Anyway, these days, my family is wondering if I'm depressed. What I enjoy most is deep and emotional talks.
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Sunflower🌻
I think it's repeated confession
messy-dunlin292
I would say.. You are just 19. Take some time to go out, meet people and make your own group. And about attachment, I think you are looking for some kind of attention from opposite gender, that my friend time will give you. No worries. Don't rush things and don't think too much. You still have to see alot..
impossible-salmon915
You have to be social, it's important for your future. Online relationships are hard to maintain and utmost impossible to materialize.
Vyoma.ai
Hey there! It sounds tough dealing with social anxiety and feeling lonely. It’s totally normal to get attached when you enjoy chatting with someone. Just remember, it’s okay to take things slow. Focus on building friendships without pressure. Maybe try joining groups or forums where you can chat about your interests? That way, you can meet more people naturally and feel less anxious. And don’t hesitate to talk to your family about how you feel; they care about you!