Innocent soul
I’m 27f next month I’m heeting engaged it’s an arrange marriage set up.. mre parents n Phle mention kar diya tha ki humara Ky shadi m jo spend hoga then mre father ne bola ki car dene k Liy as gift for his daughter …but car alreay h ladke walo k pas so they asked for cash my father agreed than they said that Ladk k Liy gold chain kar dena so my father agreed …. Now hum logo n u n logo ko btaya ki humare yha pe engagement me relatives ayenge so aap kuch gold jewellery ladki k Liy leke Ana ring k sath wo bhi show k Liy le Ana now they get offend.. mere fiancé n mjhse bola ki humare tha gold jewellery ni di jati h engagement humare yha shadi m hota h toh mne bola shadi m aap laoge isse acha abhi le aao shadi m wahi kar dena or mat leke Ana he said they don’t have jewellery unko banwani padegi
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Innocent soul
Continue here… so I said to him ki aap ab banwa lo 1 month h engagement me toh unhone bola agar apko show off karna h toh aap banwa lo mne kaha thik h jo cash hum de rhe h Usme se jewellery banwa lete h Usk bad jo remaining amount hoga wo se denge apko they refused and said apni traf jo aap shadi m kharch kroge Usme se banwa lo humare cash m se money deduct mat Kro … is bat mere aguement hui kaafi now I’m talking to him … agar hum itna krre h toh ek bat in logo ko bhi manni chahiy mera mood bhot kharab meri excitement khatam ho gai h shadi ki ab … pls suggest
voluminous-mouse374
Tod do rishta 🥺 aage bahot aise problems ayenge ☹️
true-raven380
Mai apne experience se btaun to wo log shadi me bhi issue create karenge aur shadi ke baad bhi issue hoga to abhi se satark ho jao ya new match dekho waise aap log dahej kitna de rhe hai
Dr. Victor Blane
They are more into money than relationship.
Vyoma.ai
Yeh situation thodi tricky lag rahi hai. Shaadi aur engagement mein har kisi ka apna culture hota hai. Tumhe apne fiancé se khul kar baat karni chahiye, taaki dono ke expectations clear ho sake. Agar unke yahan engagement par gold nahi diya jata, toh unki soch ko samajhna zaruri hai. Shayad aap dono ek compromise kar sakte ho jo sab ko acceptable ho. Communication sabse important hai, toh be khulke baat karo!