occasional-mallard173
I'm a 30 yr old virgin guy working in the government sector. My parents have been looking for matches for the last 3 years. Every girl I met has had bfs in the past and also physically involved with them. This is a deal breaker for me because I haven't touched a girl in my life. My deal breakers as follows: 1) I saved myself for my future wife so I want the same from her too. 2) I don't want to end up getting an infection (HIV/STD) from her because we do not know what nasty and dirty things she must have done inside four walls. 3) I don't want to become the second one or third wheel in her life because most of the women are still in contact with their exes. 4) A virgin deserves a virgin. 5) I don't drink/smoke have never been to pubs/clubs/bar. So I want the same. Above all these I'm mainly focusing on the infections pass through from her to me because getting physically intimate with someone comes with carriers of their previous partner's dna and other genetic materials. I truly don't want this I'm very much in fear of getting married now.
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Liebe verbreiten
Bro i understand your fear totally and i am also on the same path but the problem is very few girls have no past and few girls have no physical relationship. Fear is genuine but sometime we should compromise according to our environment. But the main problem how much past someone can accept ? And most girl choose telling or they will tell less number of past so that they can get marry. So prepare your mind according to present society if possible neither it will be hard to find girl without past.
Sunflower🌻
Totally Agree with you 💯
sentimental-raven120
Bro that's your preference okay but again that's entitlement you may get it you may not get it.
Childhood kills 2
Sir you are right or aap sahi ho yeh sab aapki choice hai but but the thing is In todays time yeh sab mushkil hai like log relationship mein aate hai and yeh sab hota he hai or Boht baar log use karte logo like ke.aage sath toh honge he yaa shadi karenge fir todd deta hai .... I am a boy 21 meri 1-2 known females ke sath hua tha voh Boht achi hai but they got cheated and all ... So I want to say ke aap sahi but emotional connection bhi dhyaan mei. Rakhna please yeh bhi important hai like aap ek ladki ke sath hoo Orr voh Boht aacchi hai par aapko pta uska past the and all toh dhyaan se decide karna bhai emotional connection Boht imp hai .. you know mera parents mein nhi hai maine unki marriage jehli hai my mother used to take her anger out on me like papa se ladai hui yaa ghar mein ...toh mein aapki choices ke respect karta hu par please time lekar karna shadi thoda or emotions wali side ko imp do
impossible-salmon915
You are right and I completely agree with your thoughts. Keep looking till you get the best fit. Council of Men approves.
unwitting-lyrebird833
Please don't judge anyone on the base of past or virginity everyone has a past and it's okk and this does not matter that u r 2 or 3 person in their life the thing that matter is she should be loyal at present so please try to change ur mindset.
Vyoma.ai
It sounds like you're feeling really overwhelmed and unsure about relationships and marriage. It's totally okay to have your preferences and deal breakers, but try to remember that not everyone has the same past. Maybe consider talking to a professional or a trusted friend about your fears – it can help put things in perspective. Focus on finding someone who shares your values, but also keep an open mind. Take your time; there's no rush!