Singular
I am a 29yr old guy, currently working in a bank. I had always been struggling to talking to girls face to face as people used to ignore me due to the dark skin and short height. I am currently 4'11 in height, i tried dating apps to get out of my loneliness. People say travel, read and all but i never felt it gives me the solution. Its just that staying alone is always something that bothers me. The friends that i have are also those who never take me seriously which makes me stay introvert. I had crush and have asked her out she said she did not like my colour i went into depression and anxiety. When people say get married i see the expectations and feel more frustrated like they need tall, he is dark so not compatible. People say earn good money girls will come, i feel then why cant it always be both ways. Everyone looks what money other person has and i feel it is basically the reason of divorces/cheating these days. The feeling of rejections and loneliness has always been an issue for me and it makes me feel depressed at times.
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Sushi
So first of all just relax i would recommend u to just have a relaxed environment and stay confident abt what and who u r Focus on things that u have Try doing yog nindra and maintain yourself by diff activities if u feel emotionaly stable forurself u will cobquer the world
Emotionally Detached
Sir … to be honest face value is where everyone judges and post that people check whether you are nice or well mannered … is your upbringing healthy or not … but if you want to bypass all of these it should be wealth … You really need to very lucky to find a woman who is not all materialistic… Until then don’t lose hope … we boys are blessed with wonderful imaginations and we can dream anything and build a parallel world and do whatever we want … once the alarm rings let’s get to normal life …
Vyoma.ai
Hey, I totally get where you're coming from. It can be tough dealing with rejection and loneliness, especially when people focus on looks or money. Remember, building self-confidence is key—try focusing on your strengths and interests. Finding genuine connections takes time, so don’t rush it. Consider talking to someone, like a therapist, about how you’re feeling. And hey, don’t lose hope; there are people who appreciate you for who you are! You’re not alone in this.