Fighting
27F, I'm going to get married next month. It's an arranged marriage and we both had our share of past relationships. We discussed everything prior to the wedding and he has no issues with my past since we both are in the same boat. However, I haven't told him something. Five yrs ago, My pics and videos with my ex got leaked on the internet. My ex lost his phone and this blunder happened. I was devastated and filed a police complaint in the cyber crime dept and broke up with him. I became traumatized and sui*idal but my parents were very supportive and saved me from the trauma. Mostly, my videos were removed from the internet but my friends are saying that there are still a few of my videos available on the internet and being shared among telegaram. Even the police said that they can't track everything. He is okay with my past but I don't know how he will react if I told him this. I fear that any of his friends or family members might come accross those videos and tell everything to him. Everything is set for the marriage and I don't have the courage to disclose it to him. Should I go with my luck that he might never come across those videos or tell him the truth and accept whatever happens? Pls suggest.
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Singular
Its better to tell rather than it coming from a third person it will create trust for future.
Loss makingTrader
Batadooh yaar
Er.
If he loves uh , he will accepts everything dnt wry dear ,
Parag
Go for the truth, lies don't work for long. Whatever will happen will be the best to happen.
Monacobikis
I don't know why iam feeling this anxious for you. Iam so sorry this is happening. I really am. I can only imagine what you must be going through now ! And have you seen any of these videos ? Is your face identifiable ?
Loss makingTrader
Original Get the hold of IO
Loss makingTrader
In cyber unit they have very much power
Lonely woman
You are which religion if you don't mind answering this š sorry
Sirish Joshi
Tell him the truth, If he gets to know from other source than the situation might be difficult so gather some courage and tell him. Don't start the new life with lies. Wish you all the best
Singular
Complaining to cyber crime is fine see even if they try to do they may not be able to remove everything, and rather than staying in fear of getting exposed of this and stressing out its better to open up.
Loss makingTrader
Hire a lawyer get a private complaint filled in any court under IT act get orders and show to cyber
Loss makingTrader
Definately everything will be cleared from web
Loss makingTrader
2 to 3 months Max to get court orders people disliking my comments dont about my connections and knowledge
Loss makingTrader
I am 26 but my achievements have surpassed many of your life long achievement
Fighting
Is this forex trader a pimp?
Fighting
Why is he spamming my comment section?
Loss makingTrader
Ask your mother who is her
Loss makingTrader
Pimp??
Loss makingTrader
Rotten body
Singular
Trader you involved in all bad activities i also feel
Loss makingTrader
These all are Typical "R"
Lonely woman
We can connect in peer support but my chat limit is reached for today I guess
Lonely woman
We can connect in peer support but my chat limit is reached for today I guess
Loss makingTrader
We are an empire of 800M usd
abhishekmhatre2740
Two options either tell him the truth or act as if you didn't knew it
Emotionally Detached
Whenever I receive notification stating there is a new video and tagline about couples intimacyā¦ I thought this just made up and there are couples who want to make money out of it or some of them are revenge p**n.. Until one day I reliazed how come I am getting everyday 30 to 50 videos and check some stats online and how big this industry growth is ā¦ it has skyrocketed post Covid and thanks to WFH setup.. To be honest these videos will resurface continuously under different tagline and different genre .. you canāt stop it ā¦ most of it are geotagged ā¦ so if your friends have seen it someday your husband will also see it .. The website UI are designed in such way that videos will surface on top which has more views in those localities and matches along with taglines ā¦. I would suggest you to inform your husband about it and face the problem you have overseen it with your parents itās half the bridge crosses another half is yet to be crossed .. Face it with strength in your heart Fear of something which is not happened is a building stone for it to happen.
notable-goldfish905
Shaadi ke pahle kisi ka bishtar par kishne kaha thaašš. I don't know why that guy accepted your past but i can guarantee you will have pay consequences even your entire life because more than 90% of guys can't be OK with his girl's past if he loves her truly
notable-goldfish905
Agar time pass karna to accept kar sakta h
Sad panda
Itās honestly sad how some people donāt realize the lasting impact of what is online. Your private pictures are out there .I just have to search for it to find them. And honestly, if your husband has even 1% of self-respect, I donāt think heād stay once he knows. Some things cross a line that canāt be undone.
Sad panda
You think people are supporting you because it's a support app but trust me world isn't a support group your character and your deeds matter.Dont let them fool you
sudden-trout795
You should tell him the truth i think...
miserable-scorpion450
It's too late to ask this question..as you are getting married next month....you can't tell everything that. Happened with you...you had actioned about that....yes if it comes up in future..u will have to face the consequences..but may be after u live with him and get that comfort. ..u can express before he comes to know....ita gonna b difficult..bt dnt spoil now
Sunflowerš»
Dear Indian's, My beloved Mans and women's. It's humble request pls don't do such act before marriage with anyone...pls don't cheat your self,parents, future partner. Have a self control on your feelings. Having sexual relationship before marriage u may call it love, but I'll say it's a sin. That's what our bhagwat gita and other holy books says.
lumpy-spider826
Tell the truth and face the consequences rather than not staying and it eating you from within.. trust God and tell the truth
Vyoma.ai
That sounds really tough, and I can understand why youāre feeling anxious. Itās great that you have supportive parents, and itās important to prioritize your mental health. If you feel that this might come up later, it may be better to be honest with him now. You could frame it as part of your past that youāve dealt with, showing your growth. Trust is key in a marriage, and sharing this might strengthen your bond. Just be prepared for his reaction, whatever it may be. You got this!