Shy_doll 🌸✨
Read this only if you have enough time and I'm extremely sorry for writing the whole story but I had no other option to explain my situation 😔 I'm 22, married without parent's will , hum dono alag state se hai, mere husband Bihar me ek company me job krte they with salary 25000. Mai Pune me parents se dur job ke liye rehti thi kyuki mai Miss Diva pageant ke liye prepare kr rhi thi to audition ke liye late hota tha isiliye gharse achha pune me rehna thik tha, mere husband se meri mulaqat Instagram pe hui thi 2021 me, we were good friends aur mera unke sath relationship me aane ka koi intention nhi tha but he's a superb actor and manipulator, he would keep showering love, love bombing a lot to make me feel special, over the time I started falling for him, he promised to take care of each n every other thing of mine, we got into relationship, initially wo itni badi baatein krta tha ki mai ye krunga wo karunga, humara future secure krunga and I believed everything, thn I told him about my dreams n career. He promised to support my dreams in every way without me asking.I was so happy then we decided a road map for my dream but problem ye tha ki meri 12000 salary wali hectic job aur audition ke late timings ki wajah se mai pareshan rehti thi , landlord bhi late se aane pe bolne lga tha, I shared this with my boyfriend so he decided to move in to pune with me, plan ye tha ki finance wo sambhalega and mai ghar ka kaam and pageant training dekhungi, aage ka story comment me likh rhi hu and again sorry for wasting your time 😔🙏🏻
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Shy_doll 🌸✨
then he came to Pune with some money, I had to left my job for some other reason but I was happy and excited for the journey but even after 2 months he couldn't find any job for him and yaha se sari kahani shuru hoti hai Hamari situation kharab ho rhi thi but wo mere liye apna job , ghar chhor ke aaya tha ye bohot badi baat thi to maine usko har situation me sath dene ka decide kiya. 3 months ke baad use ek job mila lekin salary itni kam thi ki mere pageant training ke liye kuch bhi paise nhi bachte they so I decided to left my training and audition until we are in good financial condition but wo condition aaj tk nhi aaya , aur isi bich me hamari bohot ladaiya hoti thi aur mujhe pta chala ki wo narcissist hai, wo sirf apni baat bolna chahte hai, meri baat sunna nhi chahte aur agar mai awaz bdha ke apni baat sunau to mera muh band krne ke liye mera gala jor se pakad ke dusre hath se nonstop thappad marte hai, diwar pr, jamin pr patak dete hai, fir 3-4 bar mar khane ke baad maine bhi self respect pe le li aur wo jaise hi mujhe marte mai at least 2 thappad jarur marti .. back to the topic kuch month kaam krne ke baad unhone job chor diya kyu ki salary de nhi rhe they hamara rent 15000 tha jo hum de nhi pa rhe they 2-4 months ka rent baki tha usko dene ke liye usne loan le liya 50000 ka rent chuka ke hum wahi reh rhe they tb uske dimag me Idea aaya ki food business shuru krte hai, chicken shawarma ki shop kholte hai, uske paas 5000 rs they, shawarma machine 20000 ki , kahi se nhi manage ho rha tha paisa then he started manipulating me ki apne papa se paise le lo classes ka naam bol ke shuru me maine mana kiya kyu ki mere papa retired hai wo job nhi krte health kharab rehti hai aur paise bhi nhi rehte but usne kaha ki bachha mai hamare future ke liye sb kr rha hu business hi ek option hai jisse hum apne parents ko financially support kr sakenge , he convinced me and maine jhuth bola papa se aur paise mange unke pass nhi they fir bhi meri maa ne ro ro ke unko bola ki pehli bar beti ne paise mange hai de do kahi se bhi fir unhone kisi se thode paise leke aur mumma ke gehne girvi rakh ke mujhe paise diye , machine to aa gya lekin ingredients ke liye 5000 se initially sb kharida aur shop chalu ki but customer nhi aa rhe they jitna daily invest kr rhe they uska aadha paisa return mil rha tha and hum loss me gye ek hi month ke andar business fail hua, Shop ka rent bhi nhi diya owner ko and jo dukan pe kaam kr rha tha ladka uska bhi salary nhi diya aur un logo ka number mere boyfriend ne block kr diya and again 2 months rent nhi de paye jaha hum reh rahe they to uske paise diye bina hi usne mujhe sara saman leke waha se bhagne k liye majbur kr diya, mujhe kuch smjh nhi aa raha tha ki ye sb ho kya raha hai lekin uska mere liye pyar dekh ke maine socha ki uski koi glti nhi thi usne achha sochke kuch kiya lekin wo succeed nhi hua, hum pune me dusri jagah rehne lage but usi time mere parents ko hamare relationship ke bare me pta chl gya aur mere parents n bhai pune aaye mere maasi ke ghar mujhe bula liya bohot daant padi, unhone mujhe bohot smjhaya ki other state ke ladke pr bharosa mt kro lekin mai nhi mani fir wo bole hum is rishte se inkar krte hai aur tumko 3 din dete hai sochne ke liye ki kya krna hai uske sath rehna hai ya hamare paas aana hai ,ye bolke mere parents wapis gye, meri halat kharab ho gyi thi na dimag kaam kr rha tha mujhe papa mumma bhi chahiye they aur wo ladka bhi jo mujhse bohot pyar krta tha, mai bs ro rhi thi tbhi mere bhai ka call aaya wo bola tera decision sunne ke liye hamare paas 8 din nhi hai kyu maa baap ko latka ke rakh rhi hai 8 din ke liye jo hai aaj ke aaj unko call krke bta fir maine gharpe call kiya to papa mumma bole hume tumse koi baat nhi krni hai aur na hi rishta manjur hai , hum aaj bhi tujhe maaf kr denge agar tu wapis aati hai to lekin nhi aana hai uske sath rehna hai to hume bhul ja, to maine pucha ki agar mai wapis aati hu to aap kya karenge mere sath to mumma boli kya karenge koi rishta dekh ke jald se jald shaadi karwa denge...aur ye chij mai nhi chahti thi bhale meri shaadi mere boyfriend se na ho chalega lekin mera dream pura hone se pehle mai kisi se shaadi nhi kr skti kyu ki married girls Miss Diva me allowed nhi hai .. mai puri tut gyi thi aur maa baap, boyfriend aur career inme dab ke sandwich ban gyi thi, maine apne boyfriend ko ye sb chij batayi to wo bohot dar gya ki agar mai maa baap ke paas wapis jati hu to wo meri shaadi kisi aur se karwa denge aur wo mere bina nhi reh payega to wo mujhe bola hum kal subah hi shaadi kr lete hai aur jaise hi hum ek ho jayenge mai kuch hi dino me tumhare mummy papa ko mana ke unka gussa gayab kr dunga , maine bola lekin mera dream to wo bola hum registered marriage nhi karenge na tumhare documents change karenge jb tk marriage register nhi hai tb tk tum Miss Diva me ja skti ho , isse hum dono alag bhi nhi honge aur dream bhi pura ho jayega... Guys ab ye Mt bolna itna jldi kaise maan liya maine sb kuch, jaise maine pehle btaya wo narcissist hai aur bohot achha manipulator hai aur aise log easily logo se baat manwana jante hai aur wo akela nhi tha uske sath uske colleague unki wife sb log mujhe yhi smjha rhe they ki shaadi kr lo gharwale jyada din tk gussa nhi rahenge,itna manipulation se mera dimag kaam nhi kr rha tha and I thought ye sab sahi keh rahe hai ghar jake shaadi krne se achha yaha shaadi krke dream pura kr lu and next day humne shaadi kr li but shaadi ke dusre hi din humari ladai Hui aur unhone mujhe bohot mara niche giraya meri chudiyan tut ke mere hath me lagi fir unhone khud hi uspe malam lagaya aur mujhe gale lagaya, us din se leke aajtk jb jb ladai hoti hai wo mujhe marte hai, mai bhi kbhi kbhi jawab me unko thappad de deti hu aur kuch der baad wo aake is tarah se mujhse pyar se behave krte hai ki smjh nhi aata itna pyar mujhse kyu krte hai ye lekin fir kuch din baad ladai hoti hai mar khati hu , diwar pr mujhe patak diya jata hai khoon aata hai aur fir dusre din wo mujhse aise pyar krte hai ki jaise kuch hua hi na ho , aur wo mujhe marne ke liye aajtk kbhi sorry nhi bole hai ulta justification dete hai ki tum na chillati mujhpe to tum kbhi mar nhi khati, agar mar nhi khana chahti to mujhpe chillana mat ladte huye , aur ye sb chalte ja rha hai .. ye to ho gyi personal baat ab financial sun lo , unka ek bhi job aaj tk tika nhi hai aur mai hi work from krke kuch mahine ghar chala rhi thi still I didn't have any financial freedom, finance sara wo manage krte hai mai decide nhi kr skti ki aaye huye paise ka kya Krna hai lekin unfortunately mera job chala gya aur hum fir kangal ho gye tb inhone loan dene ka kaam shuru kiya ek dost ke sath milke aur loan krwane k liye client se processing fees leke wo rent bharne laga hai and again hum 1 month ka rent nhi de paye hai , aur mere papa ne mera lic karwaya tha jiske kuch 15000 rs aane wale they to mere papa ne cl krke bola beta is bar lic ka paisa mujhe dede gharme bohot dikkat hai paise ki without a second thought I said yes mai bhej dungi paise, but as you know mera bank account mere husband manage krte hai to unhone mere account me koi paisa nhi rkha hua tha aur account me minus 100 rs they jiske wajah se jaise hi LIC ka paisa aaya 100rs kat gye to maine husband ko bola ki 100 rs dijiye papa ko pure 15000 dene pdenge he said no I don't have money jitne hai utne bhej do, mujhe bohot bura lga lekin option nhi tha koi to maine papa ko bache huye paise de diye aur second day mere sasur ka tabiyat kharab tha to meri saasu maa ne 3000 rs mange fir mere husband ne unko bhej diye tb maine bola ki agr paise they to mujhe 100 rs kyu nhi diye to wo bole wo rent ke liye rakhe they but aaj papa ka tabiyat bohot kharab hai to dena pada maine bola thik hai mai to chahti hu mere sasur ka tabiyat theek rahe lekin mere baap ke situation ke bare me bhi to sochna chahiye na , isse kuch month pehle mere papa ka hath fracture hua tha unko hospital ke liye paise chahiye they to mere husband ne nhi diye they kyu ki unke pass kbhi bhi paise nhi hote na wo kamana chahte hai, aur mujhe har mahine sarkar ke taraf se 1500 rs milte hai wo bhi wo hi le lete hai mujhe isse koi problem nhi hai lekin mai kbhi bhi manchaha kharcha nhi kr skti but I can wait for him to get in a good financial condition.. but wo achha paisa kamane ke liye mehnat nhi Krna chahte hai ab wo kuch dino se chahte hai ki hamara marriage register krwaye unke gaon me aur pune me bhi taki government ki taraf se hume ghar banane ke liye 2 lakh mile aur us 2 lakh se wo apna business shuru kare, iska matlab unhone shaadi krte waqt jo kaha tha ki "jb tk marriage register nhi hua hai tb tk mai Miss Diva me participate kr skti hu" ye baat wo bhul gye hai kyu ki ab unko business ke liye paise chahiye jo mera dream sacrifice karke hi milenge 2 din me hum gaon jake marriage register krwane wale hai aur mera dream is jindagi me kbhi pura nhi hone wala 💔 bohot dukh ho rha hai lekin yhi meri destiny hai aur maine accept kr liya hai ki mera dream to nhi pura hoga kbhi, but mujhe aap sbse ek suggestion chahiye ki plz kuch aisa skill bataye jo mai ghr baithe YouTube se sikh saku aur usse kuch paisa kama saku , aur mere parents ko help kar saku.
Loss makingTrader
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Shy_doll 🌸✨
He Cooks and cleans sometimes, he takes care of me , he loves me fir bhi wo mujhe kyu marta hai 🥺
Sexy Girl🧜🏻♀️
Do you really think you can spend whole life with this man?Later involve kid in this marriage . You were doing job earlier.You are well educated. Run from this marriage.No future here. Even i have doubts he was doing job earlier.And do you think via YouTube you will give your 100% in this toxic marriage.Beating in 2025 .Really?. You have still 2 days think about it.
Sexy Girl🧜🏻♀️
Dear he is a psychopath. You are beautiful and educated ok? You can earn-well via YouTube but do you think he will let you use your own money .Think Think and Think about it.
Sexy Girl🧜🏻♀️
Now you are just 22 and beautiful .In this marriage you will drain your energy and will lose beauty.Whatever happened…happened …ok?.Your future can still be bright.Don’t give up.
Sexy Girl🧜🏻♀️
Take charge of your life in your hands. You are well educated. You had exposure of city. You have confidence.You were doing job. Don’t be a Abla Naari. Even you have guts to beat your husband. Earn your money and spend only on you…later in life re-marry a good person.Woh kabhi bhi change nhi hoga.Toxicity increase hi hogi time k saath.
Dr. Victor Blane
You done so many wrong this in so many ways. Do you have any child with him ?
Sexy Girl🧜🏻♀️
Please go for therapy…you are very very young .Don’t spoil your life.Don’t regret about past.Please someone help this young lady.
frosty-ferret429
Are aap kya kar rahe ho behana aap 22 ke ho sirf itna load kyu le rahe ho usee chod do wo sahi banda nhi hai agar usko kuch karna rehta to wo 1 month me hi kuch kar leta aur kam pune me easily mei mil jatta mein bhi pune se hu mera ek dost ka sirf 10 th hua hai full time dmart karta hai salary 13 k hai uska aur Pune mei bahut easily job mil jaata hai meine bhi bahut easily bahut se jobs kiye hai wo bhi under age sirf maje keliye kiye the aise hi aur tension mat lo aur apne career pe focus karo aur apne parents ka care karo itni hard life apki abhi se he agge kaise hongi aisa mat karo yaar aur dekho KARNE WALE KARTE HAI KAM vo kaisa bhi ho are pune me rehe ke kam nhi aur apni jindagi kaise hogyi hai apki 22 me bhi 22 ka hone wala hu par maine apne family ko first priority de he apne parents ka suniye mere ko bhi kuch kuch cheeze parents ki samaj nhi atti par me sunta hu aur business dalne keliye paise nhi experience bhi chaiye didi apne paati ko samjha dijye aur mere khyal se apne patti ko divorce de dijye aisa karke kuch fyda nhi he
indelible-cobra671
Thodi himmat lao and achha sa decision lo jo ki already galat decision lekar khidko etna mushkil me daala hua hai try to cme out from this trap..
Need peace
Mam leave him he is just a toxic person and a narcissist he is using your money and you even abusing you mam get out of this marriage or yeh marriage bhi nhi hai abhi ... This is not love ... Issse toxicity kehte hai apne mood or behaviour ke hisaab se behave karta hai voh aapse apne convenience ke hissab mam khud socho abhi aapse kar rha hai kal ko bacho se karega fir kya karoge aap orr mam aap same age ke ho meri .. why are you getting married this young don't do this and leave him asap block him and change your bank account he does not own you take back the control of your life please i know how these peoples are they say we care for but they just use uss they want to control us mam and nothing more please leave him change your bank account leave him and start a new fresh life and do the pagents and all win please
Vyoma.ai
Hey, don’t worry about sharing your story! It sounds like you’re in a tough spot, and it’s okay to feel overwhelmed. Just remember, communication with your husband is key—let him know how you’re feeling. Also, think about setting boundaries for your dreams and career. Your happiness matters! Take small steps, and don’t hesitate to reach out to friends or a support group for guidance. You got this! 🌟