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I'm 25 F unmarried. My parents are extremely strict since childhood. In My teenager meri dosto k BF the . I told my mom and warned me to stay away from them n said they are off bad characters. Muse 12 class boards k baad Phone mila h . When I was about to join college they even warned me not to get into BF etc.. Or Aaj be whenever I talk something like that they Bash me and scold me chup raho or faltu bate mat kro . Ye sab bekaar chzz h . I m working. Mera ajtak koi BF nhi Raha I often feel emotionally drained. 😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔

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left-aardvark202

I got married in November this year in arrange marriage setup … my husband is so sweet n caring n he loves to travel n explore … hum kafi jagah jate h bahar outing par … Mre in laws ko isse bhot problem h … Mre fil or sil humare sath rehte h …. My sil is divorcee… hum log kabhi dinner p ya drive p khi jate h toh Mre fil tokte rehte h .. or call karte h ki kab aoge bhot der ho gai h … rat ho rhi h jaldi aya kro pata nhi unko... Read more

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stark-albatross915

I had bad thoughts about my mom..it's feels so disturbing...I can't stop myself...pls help me someone.. How to stop these things

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Mintmin327

My husband didn't intimate with me I seduce him many times told him fights with him many times but he didn't feel anything for intimacy. Randomly he said I don't feel like you are my wife I feel like I'm living with any child. You don't look like wife So I didn't feel for you.he told Initial days in our marriage he feels like im his wife but theb he dont. Later he laugh and told I was joking. But i don't think that he was joking somewhere randomly he told the truth this is what I feel. Later i... Read more

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unwitting-lyrebird833

Mujhe bahut imaginations Hoti hain mujhe bahut emotional support ki need feel hoti hai jaise kisi ne kaha tum ye nahi kar sakte mujhe imagination aata hai aisa lagta hai koi mujhe hug kare kahe tu kar legi jaise kisi ne kaha tha compitition me tough song mat lo bhale hi practically sahi ho mujhe aisa lgta hai koi turant mera hath pakde bole tu kar legi aur ek din tu jeetegi isi song se mujhe imaginations aisi aati hain

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whimsical-baboon618

I'm 31 F Married. In November Arrange marriage. I am Not Happy. Muse nahi rehna 😔. I hate to have sex with my husband. I don't want him to touch me . I m in love with someone else. I am in love with my BF and still in contact of him .

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wretched-fish265

I'm M 23 I just had a breakup a month ago from a 3 year serious relationship... I was the horrible peron in that relationship.... Now, I just committed a mistake by using paid online pleasure.. Now, I feel guilty and don't know how I'll explain this to my future partner... Can someone please help?

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Spinning wheels

Does anyone here who lives separately and feels heavy or scared to go to the in laws place. I'm married women and I feel anxiety constant heavy chest whenever to visit in laws. I feel world crashes down and there is nothing in my body. Constant anxiety in stomach. How to manage what to do?

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Mintmin327

Hello everyone. I'm 29 F married. Does physical intimacy is so much important in married life. It's been 2 years to my marriage first 6 months were good nit that but as compared to now it was good. Since last more than 1 year my husband didn't show intimacy intrest he just wants to sleep. I insisted many times we rarely intimate once in a month from last year and sometimes not. I'm taking initiative but he says I'm tired and not now. But he don't initiate by his own. I feel scared what if he lost that connection our relationship... Read more

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flimsy-snake184

Someone just posted that he/she is going through depression and deleted the post. God bless you..he is looking at you and his blessings are with you ☺️

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wealthy-tapir356

Hi i m F 26 . I m in tension I kissed my BF smooch . But kiss krte hue ka pic uske pass h hum dono ka le liya h . Now he wants the kiss baar baar . When I say no he say ki vo y pic mere parents ko send krdega m kya kru 😭😭😭😭

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Animalsnake-074

My mind is totally disturbed due to insults , control etc. Since marriage I've tolerated it. But now I think my mind is full as I'm feeling panic many times. I told my husband too about it and said if I told to my parents about it what im going through they'll take strict actions and shared with him what my parents told few months back when these kind of things happened. He loves me I think I should not have to tell him but I told my mistakenly. I think i did this wrong i never told him... Read more

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tempting-gazelle200

Look, there's something I need to get off my chest. I've known this girl for 13 years, I'm 22, and the truth is I like her a lot, way too much. She's not the prettiest, but I really like her. The thing is, she's into her neighbor who moved in two months ago; she's crazy about him. The thing is, I know him, and he's not good for her. I don't mean to put him down, but he doesn't work and he's supported by someone else. I work, I pay rent, and I cook. I'm not the best-looking guy, just... Read more

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Human

Me 30 F hu . Recently I got married arrange marriage se . 5 mahine hogye h me intimate nhi ho paari hu with my husband. Haa Mera ek BF tha 4 saal tak relationship tha mera uske sath me . Mene kabhi seggs nhi kia h with my BF . But yes mene kiss kri h BF ko ek nhi bht baar we kissed smooch 😔. Ab jab b mera pati mere pass ata h ya kiss krta h muse ajeeb feel hota h . Kiss se aage hum nhi bd paare h sxx nhi ho para . Me kya kruu I m so... Read more

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avaricious-cobra354

Nowadays I have a lot of self harming tendency I have lost will to enjoy anything no one is there to understand parents just take out their frustration on me

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free-wolverine476

I am a 35 yr old female.I am married.I have a serious concern about my brother elder to me.He got married for 2nd time 5 yrs ago.He works in IT at a big position ,earns very well.He is very abusive,rude,speaks very badly with my parents.His wife brainwashed him about my parents.She gets offended on small things ,she is a narcissist.She constantly creates issues in the house,blames my parents.My brother defends her & scolds my parents will n front her.He got divorced from his first love marriage,that girl unfortunately was very dominating , cunning & left the house as she wanted... Read more

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motherly-sparrow17

Am 40M and my mother has always been extremely moody and wants everything done strictly on her terms. Even though I am nearly 40 years old and live in a different city from my parents, she still wants to be the boss and control decisions. She has a habit of overthinking and creating hypothetical situations in her head, which then turn into fights, shouting, yelling, or suddenly stopping communication altogether. At times, she accuses others of mistreating her without any clear reason. This has been the reality for both my brother and me throughout our lives. Everyone in our family, relations,... Read more

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Spider-woman

Hi everyone...I'm f38 my husband is 41,we had a love marriage when I was 22 n he was 25..it's funny actually, here every thing is confidential that's the major reason I'm sharing here..so I'm talking about Sex..we used to have sex number of times when we were in our 20s..but slowly I'm fading n i don't have much interest on having sex but my husband,he wants to have every second day, sometime everyday... Even in the daytime ,we r very mature couple according to society.. just wanted to know all the couple r like this??? Or I've become... Read more

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avaricious-cobra354

My parents don't understand me my father blames me for everything and always talks to me rudely they blackmail me to ask sorry to elders even if it is not a huge mistake even my family members don't treat me nicely be it maternal or paternal they treat me as good for nothing bodyshame be openly shame me because I choose arts and I am not smart they don't care about my feelings openly make jokes on me my opinion is never respected nor my feelings.

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Animalsnake-074

I were on family trip for few days with in laws. I want to share. We were on dinner and after done my sil said something to me and I didn't understand shebtold ne twice and later she told me late current loudly in front of everyone. People around me started laughing and I feel so embarrassed literally like a crying. I feel insulted and these kind of insulting incidents happened many times by her. I told my husband They helped my husband to set his business he can't say anything to her. I still feel like a nervous and... Read more

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staid-turtle959

Insaan kai baar ese halato me se niklta h jo ose bohot emotionaly weak kar deta h na idhr ho pata h na idhr ho pata h

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troubled-giraffe266

I m F 32 Married. Meri shadi ko 4 saal hogye h . I don't love my husband. Muse nhi rehna h I want divorce. I even said him . Muse alimony y sab kuch b nhi chaiye i just want to divorce. Mere parents inlaws husband are not letting it happen. Par muse alimony y sab b nhi chaiye muse mutual divorce chahiye..Shanti s divorce ho jaaye Forcefully raha thodi jaata h ab 😔 Indian women life is like na khud ki marzi s shadi hoti h .na divorce 😔😔

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unselfish-guanaco890

Why people are crazy for Govt Job? Recently meri ek cousin s baat hori thi ek conversation hua . Jisme I said ki stop grofying Govt Jobs. Cousin replied with my one relatives to me ki- q tumara clear nhi hua kya govt exam jo tumko jalan hori h . Srsly. Mtlb ajeeb hai . Even my parents unka b muh ban gya they altogether mocked me for not having a Govt Jobs

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punctual-narwhal985