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Hey all! I seriously need help. I'm 26 and in a relationship since Jan 2024. I'm not happy in my relationship. I'm pretending to be happy because I don't want to hurt my bf. I love my bf so much. I cannot imagine a life without him. I'm so emotionally attached to him. Emotionally invested too. I'm always a clingy person. He is a gem and loves me more than I do. He cares for me, making time for me in his busy life. He is also making efforts in this relationship and I'm doing everything I can to make... Read more

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immense-fish217

Yr main apne religion se bahut pyaar krte hu par lgta hain kabhi kabhi ki shaye bahot lathor bta rakhi hain choti choti cheezo k liye jaise premanand ji keh rahe the ki koi stree prai ko kam dristhi se dekhega to hzaro salo tk narak main cauch mar k pakshi uski khate rhenge nayi ankain ayengi or wo khate rhenge merei fantasy b thi bhabis k sath krne ki mujhe mauka b mil jata pr narak or Krna k dr se maine nahi kiya pr bhai yr ab bola ja rha hain dekhoge tb b ye to natural hota... Read more

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ultimate-swallow476

I'm so confused about myself. I have a friend who is a psychologist. Two days ago I was telling her that 95% of hormonal women in their early and late teens are falling for bad guys and after being with them for years, tolerating all their shit and toxicity and even sometimes losing virginity and get pregnant too, they walk out of that relationship finally. But why have I always liked good guys only throughout my life. I just chased away the men of women's dreams (Arjun reddy and Animal RK kinda boys). I never liked them honestly. I... Read more

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unwitting-lyrebird833

Mujhe bahut taklif hoti h maine therepy bhi li h sab try kia but utna faida nahi hua kabhi kabhi therepist ki baatein bhi bahut trigger karti h mujhe logical se zyada emotional support ki craving Hoti h sab logically batane lagte hain kya sahi kya galat par agar kain apni problem Kisi se share kar Sakti hun pehle koi ye kahe ki haan main samajh sakta hun par sab turant logical tarike se samhhene lagte hain to mujhe aur depression and sucide thoughts aate hain

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welcome-salamander820

I'm F 33 and have been married for 4 years now . My husband wants a baby now But I don't. I don't want to get intimate with him now onwards because I think he will make me pregnant. From past 4 months he tried for baby. But I am having pills because I don't want a baby . And my husband is unaware of it .

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unwitting-lyrebird833

Mujhe samajh me nahi aata bhagwan ne mujhe aisa kyu banaya mujhe normal ladkiyon ki tarah kyu nahi banaya bahut sensitive hun har cheez dil pe lagti h cheezein sikhne ke aur logon ke comparison me zyada dikkat hoti h log kamzor samajhte hain friend circle nahi h na life me kuch kar paa Rahi dimaag kaaam nahin kar raha har samay negativity Rehti h kyu aisi hun

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Tortoise

I am feeling so low . Bhar s thk huu . Andr s nhi par . Upr s mera husband muse bht scold krte h sometimes. Even today ( Dilwali))he shouted at me and I cried . Hmari first diwali thi sath me fir b he scolded me . Kya me kuch glt krii huu . Ya husband ka expectations full fill nhi kr paari vo bht gussa krne lgte h kabhi kabhi 😔

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Wide world

Im female married 2 years ago.Whenever any festival comes I feel a lot of negativity in me. I don't feel like to celebrate I wake up with so much stress automatically and unable to sleep in night. I couldn't complete work early I don't feel like to enjoy or smile. I feel so much rush and feel tired. Many occasion I feels to cry. These are getting very heavy on me to smile even I don't want or behave fake. I'm lost person. Does anyone also feels the same. Please help advice

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ripe-hamster316

Waiting praying manifesting since July. I see no progress. I am so tired of pretending to be happy. This is something I am unable to take any longer. There's no one I can communicate to. I have started believing in astrology so much. Everyone predictions says there's a chance of ex partners comeback. But God is testing me so much. When will I smile and say, I made it

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unwitting-lyrebird833

Ye society ke rules nahi follow karne chahiye ghatiya society bina kapde ke sab jagah ghumo koi manners mat follow karo jo Mann me aaye wo karo shaadi mat karo 10 logon ke sath so jiska mann me aaye murder Karo ye society ko tod diya jaaye

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scratchy-okapi86

Me and guy who fell for me was already having a gf but he now says he wants to be with me but since his parents know about a girl he is confused what to do but he says I am ready to follow whatever u says because he is confused...I suggested him to get the clarity and get it rectified whether its even love or im just a better option with the help of psychologist.....my question is do u think he can get clarity with the help of psychologist or not and also will it be genuine since he... Read more

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studious-ram635

I fell for someone who was just using me as his walk ka timepass which I realised much later.. have blocked him and have not spoken to him for last 1.5yrs. Extremly selfish and manupulative married man.Havent spoken about this with anyone and this is the problem. I need to vent abt the asshole he is.Only then I will feel better. that heavy weight on my chest .I want to expose him.

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petty-ibex703

The man that I loved like anything, sacrificed a lot for him, endured everything, left me on my birthday at 12 am, when wishes come in. He once promised to marry me, i fought everyone for him, even my family. And he ghosted me for a month, saying there are problems, he is sick and now he doesn't feel like talking. He made me feel miserable everyday before, he even tried to raise his hand at me and I endured everything because I thought I loved him. He pushed me away when I needed him the most. He made me... Read more

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wrathful-cheetah426

From past 1 year iam working in a company in procurement, from the date of joining i dont know why but my manager dont liked me now suddenly he made a plan and on the name of unetical practise he made me terminated from my company . Now i dont know what to . Can i able to apply for new jobs ? Please help . Iam from bangalore i need job very urgently.

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unwitting-lyrebird833

I don't know what is happening mujhe bahut anxiety hoti h even har samay anxiety rehti h main kaafi ambitious hun life mee bahut kuch karna chahati hun par ye hardwork ki jagah anxiety Ban raha mujhe lagta h mera career bhi acha bane dekhne me achi lagun par jab comfort zone se Baher ane ko sochun to bahut stress aata h panic attack hota h bahut stuck hun apni life me

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creepy-caterpillar713

So what happened I was insecure with my girls talking so much to other boys not me so I asked her like do u talk to this guys she was like let's break up u are insecure u don't trust and I was just trying to clear things up for my mind and after that she told me it was attraction from starting i never loved u so let's end this I can't it's been 1 week should I mssg her or let it be she mssg me that 4 days ago u can clear things but I ignored it... Read more

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creepy-caterpillar713

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possible-gnu810

I’ve been in a relationship for 4 years and lived together with her for 3 years.I know her completely.her habits,emotions,behaviour everything. We’ve shared everything, from laughter to silence. But lately,I’ve been scared. Not because I don’t love her, but because marriage feels like a different reality. We come from different cultures and religions,And sometimes she used to make fun of my culture,like why you guys do this,do that etc. I’m scared about how she will treat my parents as she won’t be live with my parents or my family. This days we lost spark in our relationship and most of the time... Read more

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salty-zebra705

25M, Just now filed a police complaint in the cyber crime department regarding my female friend's issue. Her ex is threatening her by using her private pics and videos taken with him. I too have a sister. I'm not victim blaming/shaming women who gone through similar situation but I have only few questions to ask women. 1) Is lust, love or trust bigger than your own well-being and safety? meaning are you blindfolded by lust or love or trust? 2) Why is it so hard for women to say 'NO' to their bfs? 3) Even after so many cases similar to this.....why... Read more

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Impure heart

My mil tells everytime to my husband whatever to decide. It's festival and my mil calls my husband to ask her to go to my in laws place for diwali prep. I am not in condition to travel and go and again come back here and on day of diwali again go. I'm on my hard days..she asks my husband if he can send me there. I want to know is it normal? I mean she could ask me directly. This is not limited to this scene only.I felt so bad that my control is in others hand. I don't... Read more

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used-mallard718

Hiii I am 7 months pregnant recently I had my baby shower function it was a big event with around 250 guest I was very happy at the function we had given return gift with 2 ladoos one from the husband side and other from my mother's side. The next day in the afternoon we got a call from our relative that the ladoo given from my mother's side got spoiled it had got fungus around it I got very sad relatives are calling and telling us I feel like crying it was the mistake of the person... Read more

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vibrant-tiger21

Ive never had a job as I was trying to help my father but it seems like he never cared. He sold everything including all ancestral things, my mother's jewellery, our home and even took huge loans on each of us that we didn't completely knew. Now, I've turned 35, family still has a debt of 90 lakhs and no assets, father is extremely toxic and i have had a history of failing mental health including stress fatigue anxiety overthinking panic loneliness inferiority complex and self doubt, plus I've been having extremely suicidal thoughts now(earlier also i had the same thoughts... Read more

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bouncy-yak217

I need to get this off my chest.After my breakup, I told myself a lie. I convinced myself that before I could love again, I had to be completely healed over my past, emotionally strong, perfectly “fixed.” I thought I needed to figure it all out alone before I was ready for someone new.But that’s not how life works. That was the biggest lie I ever believed.Here’s what I’ve learned, you don’t heal first and then find love. You find the right love, and that’s when real healing begins.You find the right person when you’re broken because that’s the time... Read more

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elbertine-red

My mom's big ego has costed us being distanced out by our neighbours.she keeps talking shit about non working women and how neighbours feel seeing her go to places with her office colleagues etc etc.i asked her not to do that as we don't know these people (we had moved to this place a year ago).suddenly our neighbours have stopped talking with us from last 2 months and it's affecting me mentally i am preparing for govt exams and I stay at home and see others roam outside and i stay at home hiding myself .

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tender-antelope43

I got married in 2024 through an arranged setup. I come from a humble background, and he belongs to a well-off family. I knew about his habit of occasional drinking before marriage — something I dismissed as harmless, since most men I met had similar habits. What I didn’t know was that he had lied about his education. He’s only a 12th-grade pass, while I’m a post-graduate in medicine. I found out after marriage, but I forgave him when he apologized during a walk. His mother pressured me to stick to a part-time job because “ghar kaun sambhalega.” But I’ve always... Read more

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Ghi ghi

Here I want to confess my scenarios im so much in low self esteem and suffering alot Im taking private classes and my student has not given me any fees sine joining that is from may 2025. I'm so hesitating to ask them fees also at same time amount is not big but I also need it but I cant be able to say her mother about fees . Since may im just teaching her without asking fees I thought they will give me so I wait for long and once before 2 months I think they ask me how much... Read more

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unsung-otter207

Throughout my life, the only relaxations I have had in my life for going on trips and sex. I had a bf in clg, we have been to so many places across India and the physical was fire with him. Due to some problems, we broke up and after 2 years I got married. It's been 3 years since I got married, my husband is not making me physically happy not a single day after marriage. After searching online and talking to docs, I sat down and talked to my husband but he started feeling depressed. Then I asked... Read more

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unwitting-lyrebird833

Mujhe samajh me nahi aata ye logon ne kaise rules bnaa rakhe hain faltu ke log kehte bhagwan ki Pooja karo par unse Zyada Partial to koi hoga hi nahi jo mann Kara h karte hain jab mann kia kisi ko sab dedenge jab mann kia Kuch nahi denge fir log kehte hain kismat me jo likha h accept ksro aur agar kisi ke sath galat Karo tab apke sath galat hoye to kehenge Karma h ye logon ka uperwala ka mental torture nahi h kya mar jaao kisi se shikayat mat karo kuch galat mat karo chino mat chhe... Read more

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right-jellyfish269

I'm 22 y/o girl. My degree got extended by a year because of backlog. I'm unemployed, stuck at home, with failure and rejections. To make it worse I'm also going through relationship problems. I apply for jobs everyday but get nothing but rejections. I see all my friends moving ahead while I'm just stuck, nobody to share nobody to talk. I don't know how to fix this.

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agitated-ferret474

Why running after sexual pleasure is a waste of time ? also how to curb and eradicate sexual desires whenever you see someone really attractive

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pricey-pony180

Putting my heart out. My husband is not going to office or working from almost 6 months. He has told he isn’t well or something. I dunno how the manager is good or his luck is good. Anyways ppl are happy when no work. Now he is spending time on phone 24/7 with learning things, podcasts, current affairs etc which is good but he isn’t involving with me or our daughter. All the time on the phone, if we try to tell him, he doesn’t respond or he can’t hear because of the headphones. I tried to speak with him... Read more

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pricey-pony180

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indolent-kingfisher697

I am a 24-year-old man who met a girl in 2019 during SAT classes; she was preparing for IELTS. We quickly connected, and after some time, I confessed my feelings for her. She reciprocated but emphasized that her moving forward depended on my family's acceptance. She disclosed her past relationship with a boy who treated her as an option, as he prioritized his career and sought an NRI partner. When her ex reappeared, claiming to have changed, she wanted closure and asked my permission to meet him one last time, which I allowed. I assured her she would never be an... Read more

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unwitting-lyrebird833

Mujhe pata nahi Kya ho gaya body me hmesha thakan Rehti h mind hamesha overload hota h hardwork karne ka mann nahi Karta guilt hota h fir uper se log samjhaate hain ye karo wo karo aur stress hota h mera mind body meri help nahi kar raha mujhe 5 min ka task karna bahut zyada lagta h

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buttery-hornet658

I’m a 25-year-old man from Delhi. Right now, I’m lying on a hospital bed after a recent accident thankfully, with only minor injuries. But as I lie here, I feel a strong urge to confess something very important. Back in 2021, I met a girl from Kolkata. We met in a library, and our vibes matched instantly. She had recently gone through a breakup it had been hardly 8 or 9 months since then. But in just one month of knowing her, our bond became so strong that I confessed my feelings for her. We loved each other deeply.Her mother knew... Read more

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menacing-seahorse148

Hi i am M age of 31 I m in relationship with someone from the last 8-9 years & we know each other from the last 13 years infact more then this when we first talked whole night its Dec 2014 after that we meet everyday & we start talking everyday it was like attraction in starting we talked about some se*ting sudden her mother & brother caught her nd his brother was my classmate i was like playboy type of guy during my school nd college persuing time her brother knows this thing he said yh aisa h vaisa... Read more

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offbeat-fish450

About my sister she is 17 year old and in 11th class My sister is 17 years old. She had a boyfriend who had been her friend for the past year, and he is also our neighbor, living just 3 houses away from ours. The boy was also her school senior, in 12th grade, while my sister was in 10th. He was also the head boy of the school. A while ago, her school ended, and he left for Delhi to prepare for NDA exam which caused a breakup between them.which is my theory I read some of their chats, where: My sister... Read more

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similar-dogfish833

I never really cared about my birthdays so far nor did my parents. It has always been like another normal day for me. My parents sometimes wish me on my birthdays, sometimes not. We actually don't wish each other on our birthdays. We are a weird family, still is haha. I barely remember I cut my first birthday cake when I was just 4 yrs old after that it took me 18 yrs to cut a birthday cake on my 22nd birthday. My friends had planned a surprise for me on that day. After that I cut my birthday... Read more

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unwitting-lyrebird833

Mujhe samajh nahin aata sab kehte hain kisi ke sath galat Karo to ap ke sath galat hoga aur aise Kuch nhi mila raha to Life aise Hi h muskuraao accept karo ye kaun si baat h ye mental torture nahi sab sehte raho sabka acha socho muskuraao

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Damsel_in_distress

I had a relationship with this guy who was 8 yrs older. Initially we were frnds he used to try talking to me I used to not entertain much guys. Later i noticed his efforts and we got into relationship. In the starting days I asked abt out future, he said yes we can think abt it. Later after 4_5 months he said no my family wont allow. In this relation, whenevr he made any mistake and i fought with him, he used to ignore me for a week and later call after a week to get normal, without... Read more

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Tortoise

Hey . I m 25 year F recently married in August via arranged marriage. My husband is of 31 year old . 😔 Baat yeh h ki mene apni shadi ek majboori m ki thi due to career issue I gave various entrance exam not able to clear I was doing a Job . But I lost that job too sat at home and struggled to get a job . My home environment was toxic my parents were taunting and which made me more depressed vo choti choti chz k liye b tane dete the 😔 Jo mera husband h abhi vo mere... Read more

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unwitting-lyrebird833

Aj mujhe chahe Kisi ki baddua lage bhagwan naeaz hoye par main bolungi uper waale se ghatiya koi nahi h sirf partiality karta h kuch logon ko sab deta h aur kuch ko kuch nahi.

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unwitting-lyrebird833

Mujhe reality se nafrat h log kehte hain jo kaduwa bolte hain wohi well wisher hain par ab lagta h kuch kaduwa nahi Sunna nahi dekhni mujhe reality na dekhna mujhe aaian apni dreamy duniya me rehna h galat fahmi me hi jeena h tab hi jee oaaunhi

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educated-mosquito436

It’s been two years since I’ve gotten married to my husband, after we dated for around 10 years. Due to my husband’s job, we have always been in a long distance and minimal contact relationship even now. Due to which whenever we met, we went crazy for each other. Our intimate life was amazing. But since we got married, especially since our honeymoon, he refuses to make out with me. We hardly ever do it anymore. Even if he says he wants to, he won’t get an erection for me. If he gets, it won’t last. This issue never ever... Read more

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difficult-wren528

Hello, I am a 20-year-old NEET aspirant. This year I missed qualifying by just 10 marks, but I am determined to try again as this is my last chance. A few months ago, to support a friend and manage my own needs, I borrowed ₹4 lakh on interest and lent it to him. He has been trading for years, and I trusted his word. I only asked for a small 4% return to cover my coaching fees. But he lost the entire amount and now refuses to take responsibility, leaving me alone with this huge debt. For the past 6–7 days I... Read more

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intent-bison110

Hi I'm married F 30 . Mere shadi ko 3 saal hogye h . In teen salo m pheli baar mere husband n mere sth forcefully sex kia . 😞 Aj tak uhone kabhi mere bina Marzi k muse touch b nhi kia tha hmesa jb m comfortable hoti thi tabhi sex hota tha. Or vo ache h pyar krte h muse par 😞 Par last month uhone asia pheli baar force sex kia 😔. Mere mna krne k baad bhi . Me ab tak trauma m hu . Uhone baad m sorry bola mene verbally maaf krdia y smj k koi bat nhi pati... Read more

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agile

Finally aj 3 din baad vo sorry bola unhone muse .par muse pata h hmesa ki trh vo fir taane denge jb Mann hoga . 🥺 Maaf b kr deti sb normal ho jata par vo bar bar suna dete . Job dekh k shadi kri h y h vo h 😕😕

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white-jellyfish896

I live in a joint family and, as the elder daughter-in-law, a lot of expectations are placed on me and my husband. Whenever there is an emergency or any need in the house (other than financial), everyone automatically looks to us to handle it. My husband’s job is very demanding, and with two small children my routine is already extremely hectic. Our sleep is also disturbed because the baby wakes up at night. Still, my in-laws believe we are strong enough to manage everything, almost like robots, without considering that we too have limits and need rest. On the other hand, my... Read more

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unwitting-lyrebird833

Mujhe samajh nahi aa raha mujhe kya ho raha mere Ander bahot kuch h public place me aansoo aa jaate hain kisi se apni dil ki baat share karun to agar wo kuch samjhaae to aur stress me aajaati hun bhale hi advice sahi ho jaise maine kisi se kaha log mujhe week samajhte hain to usne kaha ki find out karo aisa kya h log tmhein aisa samajh rahe apne ap ko proof karo to usse main aur stress aur depression me aagi jaise Main shayad us waqt kuch aur Sunna chahati thi par nahi btaa paa rahi words... Read more

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unwitting-lyrebird833

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Sad

I’m 34F unmarried, yesterday I was out with my cousin and few other mutual friends, we were all teasing each other and when it came to my cousin I put her secret out thinking these are very close knit people but after doing that I realised that what ever I did was wrong while my cousin is very young(22), and this is not my character and I immediately apologised her, I feel terrible for doing that, I feel so ashamed of my acts I don’t know why I did that but that day I was totally embarrassed myself... Read more

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shameful-salamander508

My family is searching for a guy from 2 3 years but unable to find.. we all believe in God and Goddess.. and yaha pe kuch nhee ban rha tab log dikhane k liye jaatte hai vo log hath hold krke humari aage ki journey nature batate hai jo issue hai uska solution dete hai.. and kuch bura dikhee to they provide the remedies to cure it...and after that they can provide with dates ki aapki yeh chizz yeh time tak ban jaegi.. so my question is whether all that is true or not? I doubt the above i mentioned. Its... Read more

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petty-ibex703

Its my birthday today, and he called to wish me. The man that I loved like anything, sacrificed a lot for hum, endured everything, left me on my birthday at 12 am, when wishes come in. He once promised to marry me, i fought everyone for him, even my family. And he ghosted me for a month, saying there are problems, he is sick and now he doesn't feel like talking. He made me feel miserable everyday before, he even tried to raise his hand at me and I endured everything because I thought I loved him. He pushed me away... Read more

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petty-ibex703

Its my birthday today, and he called to wish me. The man that I loved like anything, sacrificed a lot for him, endured everything, left me on my birthday at 12 am, when wishes come in. He once promised to marry me, i fought everyone for him, even my family. And he ghosted me for a month, saying there are problems, he is sick and now he doesn't feel like talking. He made me feel miserable everyday before, he even tried to raise his hand at me and I endured everything because I thought I loved him. He pushed me away... Read more

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hard-panda786

My wife openly admits to the fact that she always compared me with her ex and that broke me into pieces. She confessed that she is not satisfied with me in bed and she wasn't able to voice out her needs properly with me because she thought I might get hurt and overthink. She had an ex back in college and they loved each other and were physical too. They broke up mutually in good terms. I came to know all this from her mouth itself. I can't live with a cheater like her anymore. I'm heartbroken and scared enough... Read more

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immense-fish217

Yr agar hum normal acce mood main rhete hain baki koi baat aise kre jiise ldai wali vibe ari ho or har baat k ldte hue bole ajeeb sa aise lge guuse main bol ra ho ya ldte hue to hme b wo vibe aa jayegi hum b usi trah bolne lgenge mere bgl main hi hain ek hain ajeeb si ldaku si vibe deta hain thori gamandi b keh skte hain what should I do ignore or talking to him like he do

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agile

Hi . I m F 29 .via arranged set up Meri shadi ko 1 saal 4 months hue h . My husband is Govt engineer. I m was also working in corporate. But mene last 3 months phele job left ki h . I will join new organisation in in next two months. But mere husband muse baar baar bolte h ki mene unse shadi unki Job k whj s ki h 😔 vo taane dete h . Ptanhi unhone q haa ki muse shadi ko jb unko me pasand nhi thi taane hi dene the 😞 Muse bura lgta h 😔 fir bolte h... Read more

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Honey moon

I carry a guilt that eats at me every day. Years ago, I hurt someone deeply — not physically, but emotionally — and I never truly made it right. I lied, manipulated, and pushed them away when all they ever did was care about me. At the time, I justified it to myself, but deep down I knew what I was doing. They don’t know how much I regret it, and maybe they never will. I still check on them from a distance, hoping they’re okay. I don’t think I deserve forgiveness, but if they ever read this… I’m sorry.... Read more

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warmhearted-goldfish108

I’m 23. I graduated two years ago, but my family won’t let me work — they told me to stay at home. Every day I feel stuck, like I have no identity. Marriage terrifies me; I’ve watched women in my family suffer quietly with cheating husbands because they weren’t independent. I refuse that life. I had a traumatic relationship where he lied about everything — even his age. He cheated, pretended to be someone he wasn’t, and tried to force himself on me. When my family found out, they didn’t protect me. They abused me physically and verbally for months. The... Read more

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present-wildcat683

I cheated on my bf a week ago. I'm in a relationship with my bf for the past 2.5 yrs. It's been a long distance since last year. We both are working in IT but in different cities. 6 months ago I started to have a crush on my colleague. Later it developed even stronger. Because of this I was intentionally avoiding my bf because during this long distance I lost the attraction, spark, chemistry and all. I thought it was okay. Last week him, his friends and I went on a trip. The rest I'll leave it your imagination.... Read more

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Im managing everything as much as possible doing house work cooking and whatever little things every women do as a housewife.whenever I rest I feel like I'm wasting the precious time that could be invested in other work and I feel like I'm not enough. I'm regretting every day I just think that im wasting every single day of my life and what im doing other than housewife just nothing. I'm living in guilt as I'm not earning. I feel like cry hard my heart is full and heavy

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bossy-snail542

Heading towards a divorce. Such a heartbreaking phase of my life. I never ever signed up for this. I don't know whether to live or d**. My wife (beech) has been cheating on me with her ex since the beginning of our marriage. I have proof of everything that happened between them in the last one year. I married that beech last year. It was an arranged marriage. As I was serious about marriage, I asked about her past. She deliberately lied about it and married me. After marriage through her affair with her ex only I came to know... Read more

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Spinner nodes

Im female married 28...im going through a lot in my mind I don't know where my life is heading. I'm finding failure in every aspect of my life. Everyday I wake up with anxiety. All I wanted to do is so many things but nothing is going to happen many things im trying but seems failed. I regret everyday for myself. I lost my confidence slowly im loosing myself. My husband is too good but he is fully overloaded with work in business. I'm housewife since 2 years im married. Everyone wants baby now but imnot sure. My husband don't intimate with... Read more

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simplistic-bear215

Kindly read this whole confession. I have been married for 6 months in an arranged marriage.When I met my wife, I was completely honest with her about my past relationship. She was okay with it. And her? She had no past relationships and was a virgin too. After marriage everything seemed okay until it's physical intimacy. We did it only once in the last 6 months because she said she needs enough time to get comfortable with me. I agreed to it because I love her and respect her so much. I have been waiting for her to initiate it.... Read more

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unwitting-lyrebird833

Main apni life me bahut unclear hun na chah ke bhi.Har jagah se stuck hun main corporate me Job kar rahi hun par mujhe corporate me career nahi banana mera dream h singer banne ka par itna traumas aur anxiety h ki main hardwork bhi nahi kar paa rahi ab shaadi ki baat chal rahi main mana bhi kar dun per mujhe pata h main apne dreams pe khud focus nahi kar paa rahi ya sab let go kar dun ye bhi nahi ho raha.

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serpentine-narwhal37

Hi guys I wanna express my feeling and want suggestion as well I am 29M well settled and living in metro city. I am confused for marriage. I am bisexual and nowadays a dating a guy as well. We are connected together from last 3 years. But now my family is pressure on me for marriage but I don’t wanna spoil someone life and second thought in my mind is I wanna spend my life like a normal person with kids. I love to play with kids and care for them aswell. What should I do now 1. Find someone who are lesbian or... Read more

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insecure-raccoon489

I M 22 M, DOING BUSINESS FOR 3 YEARS,VERY EMOTIONALLY WEAK PERSONALITY. I LOST M BROTHER 3 MONTHS AGO THAT BLOWN MY MENTAL HEALTH AT THE SAME TIME MY GF RUINED OUR RELATION, SHE LEFT IN MY HARSH DAYS,OUR 2 YEARS RELATION LOST AT THE SAME TIME SHE KNOW I WANT HER BUT SHE LEFT REASON I STARTED SHOWING MY FRUSTRATION TO HER. OUR TOWN IS SMALL WHERE POLTICS PLAYED BY THE LOCAL PEOPLE BUT WE SOMEWHERE ARANGE TO OUT OF THIS NOW I M ALONE BEACUSE I DO ONLY HAVE MY GF SHE LEFT I EVEN MY FAMILY DIDN'T UNDERSTAND MY... Read more

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grandiose-armadillo62

As I told you about my feelings of being woman In the last confession....I want to add in it that I am exploring my bisexuality on different online platforms where I find lot of guys , and I really find that my body feels tingles ... I feel the vibe ... But at the same time I feel shame ... I feel like I am not normal or what ..this guilt actually eating me deep inside...

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amused-chough421

I'm a 26 yr old female working in IT. My dad passed away when I was in high school. I have an older sister. My family has started to search for matches but I don't have any interest in marriage. I had a relationship but we broke up. He is married now. My family is worried about the fact that I was hoping for his marriage to fall apart and marry him which is partially true and also they are worried about my future. I was in a physical relationship with him when we loved and I don't want to... Read more

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fatherly-cat590

Is getting physical in a love relationship (not marriage) non-negotiable ritual for couples? Why can't you guys wait till you get married? Is physical relationship while loving each other necessary for all the couples?

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demanding-goat539

I'm 27f seeking a suitable groom in an Arranged marriage setup. I got rejected by 4 guys till now just because I had past relationships. I was totally honest about my past with each and every guy I met in this arranged marriage. They rejected me after listening to my stories. Here's my past..... I had 2 serious relationships (college and workplace) in which both the relationships didn't work out. I was in a physical relationship as well with both of them not because I was just horny or something.... I did it out of love for which I regret... Read more

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grandiose-armadillo62